Anyone live in the Portsmouth area?

[Gem1355]

Hi my name is Gemma and 25+3 weeks pregnant with first baby, would like to meet up with other mums and mums to be in the area.

Hi

So your Sciatica is getting worse, i feel for you. No it's not a problem with your sister being there.

Haven't spoke to Jamie yet, will be meeting him tomorrow at 8pm in the Farmhouse down Portsmouth.
So drinks are on him!!!!

i'm trying not to think about it to much as it will only make me down.

puddy - your DH wouldn't happen to be a Daniel would it? (nothing major but went to school with a daniel hutchings) - would be a small world if it was! lol, if not sorry for barking up the wrong tree!

Hopefully tho you will be able to get some things resolved. Just keep in mind what you want and what you feel is best for baby. And keep in mind the new man you have who sounds like he is willing to help you no matter what.

You can't have long to go now, what is your due date?

Due date is 4th april but think i'll be late!

I'm focusing on what the baby should have as he is living in his own little bubble, i want to try and get across that a baby should have both it's parents no matter what their relationship with each other is. does that sound right?

This might take a while so bare with me - and plese don't forget thatt this is just my opinion and experience!!

My parents split up when i was bout 4. My father went to live in Germany and I have not spoken to him since I was bout 16. My mother remarried a fantastic man when I was bout 11 and i have always thought of him of my true father. To me blood is not everything, when i look back on the life i would have had if my parents had stayed together just for us and the life that i have had, there would be no comparison.

Dh parents on the other hand stayed together 'for the children' until both he and his brother had passed their exams. Dh knew for years that things were not right and he believes this has had a direct baring on his relationship with them.

While I think, if you can, remain friends, do not iverestimate the blood ties. In my experience blood is not thicker than water and I would not change the father i have for my 'blood' father if you gave me £2 million .

Having said that please remember that this is just personal experience and I do not know enough about the relationship you had with him before you got pregnant to make any firm comments!

Hi

Well my evening with Jamie went quite well,
i told him how i felt and he said he would think about it. but i think he is coming around!

Ben agrees with what i said, and things are going really well with us.

How r u?