Thanks Mufti, tried that too, no response. Its what Swindon is like sadly, if you are not the 'perfect' mum, complete with own car and just the one child, you are treated like an outcast. If you have a SN child its even worse.
Boobsgonesouth, the NCT is great .. if you meet the expectations above, If you have a SN child they shun you, if you live in a council house they refuse to talk to you, and if you do not own a car then you are unable to attend any of their outings !!
I have been assured by friends around the country that this is not a 'NCT ' problem, as most grouops are really friendly ( and have tried a few whilst we have been on holiday, all really friendly!) Its Swindon. Its the unfriendliest place in the UK in my opinion.
I really wish things were different, but they aren't I wish I had a car, that my daughter was not ill, but the fact is thats what my life is, cannot change it, and Swindon mums will continue to shun me for it !!