I did manage 5:2 a few years ago, but that was pre-DC and I wasn't constantly exhausted.
Being constantly exhausted will raise your cortisol levels and therefore your insulin levels leading to higher hunger levels. I know it's pretty useless advice to tell you to get more sleep (I have four DCs myself and they're shit at sleeping) but do try to make sleep / relaxation a priority. So no staying up watching movies when you could have an early night. No screens in the bedroom. Etc.
Yesterday I had:
8 am FF yog with cream and flax
Do you need the flax? A lot of people use it short-term for constipation but you shouldn't need it in the long run.
10 am almond milk hot choc (in meeting)
Is this just cocoa powder and almond milk, or anything else? I assume it's unsweetened almond milk.
2pm 2 hb eggs, spinach and a small tomato with mayo, gem lettuce leaves spread with pate
It's difficult to tell without seeing a picture but this could be too little fat. An oily dressing would be better than mayo here. If you're eating two eggs you probably don't need the pate as well? If you do need a bigger quantity of food then a carb-free source such as meat would be better than pate.
4.30pm cream
Cream isn't a good snack. I understand that it's tempting but it isn't really a good on it's own. Plus if dairy is a problem for you then this will send your insulin levels up. If you cook a couple of extra boiled eggs then you could have one as a snack.
6.30pm more lettuce+pate
This is okay as a snack.
9.30pm cauliflower and broccoli covered in coconut oil and roasted, sprinkled in gran padano cheese
A good low carb meal.
I have been trying to reduce dairy but with little success, I felt rubbish, I suspect I am not getting the fat elsewhere so need to plan better.
There's no need to cut dairy unless you think it's a problem for you.
I am not sure if I have too little or too many veg!
I count five portions of veg which seems about right.
I am getting better at listening to my body and checking for hunger but have work to do.
It looks like you're eating too often:
Breakfast
Snack
Lunch
Snack
Snack
Dinner
To put that in perspective a lot of us in this group are only eating two meals a day with no snacks. As Cherries said earlier she had a day with only one meal and, while it wasn't great, she managed to get by. To me that suggests that your insulin levels are the problem and you're still in that cycle of your blood glucose dropping a couple of hours after you've eaten making you feel hungry again. Here are some tips:
- Eat enough at each meal. If you want four eggs for breakfast then have them.
- Make sure you're eating low carb high fat. If you want to pour olive oil or melted butter over your food then do.
- Foods like mayo, pate and cream are high fat but the carbs in them will add up over the day. I'm not saying don't eat them, just don't use them as your main sources of fat.
- When you feel the need to snack then have a zero or low calorie caffeinated drink such as tea or coffee with almond milk or green tea. Caffeine helps suppress appetite. Have a big drink of water - around 500ml. Wait ten minutes. If you're still hungry then have a low carb snack: olives, hb egg, pork scratchings, Peperami, Babybel, lettuce with pate... but not cream!
Initially we're going to aim to get you from six meals and snacks a day to three meals a day. Don't worry about whether you're eating too much; it's your insulin levels that we're trying to get under control, not your calorie intake.
The next step will be to introduce intermittent fasting so I want you to start making a note of the length of your overnight fast for the next few days. If you're routinely fasting for 10 hours overnight then the first goal will be 11 hours. You can then increase that gradually.
14 hours is the "magic" number where the health benefits start to accrue, you don't have to make it to 16 hours every time. I did a 15-hour fast last night then I felt hungry so I had breakfast (two hb eggs mashed with butter). Before I started 16:8 I would have had a bowl of ff yogurt with strawberries plus four eggs scrambled in butter with some pancetta cubes thrown in. Now I feel satisfied with less than half the amount of food and the only change I've made is to introduce fasting, I haven't changed the type of food that I eat at all.