Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

rofl @ eve
a jolly @ ski resort sounds good to me,tho i'm more into the apres ski kind of stuff!
hope you have a great evening,can you manage no-strings tho?!
lou guess your night will be like mine then ie all of you round the telly watching the x factor
dd bless her has requested an early dinner tho so she can watch cheryl's show first
is it still all on for next weekend tho with batman?

i have told him after discussing it with the kids we are declining his offer

i am not explaining anymore

at 47 he should have the brain capacity to understand why

we will be staying in yes, i took the younger 3 to an afternoon at a local event earlier, i just have to get dd1 and we will be settled for the evening

and yes batman is still on, had a message for him saying he was looking forward to it

tbh with everything thats been going on the last few months, and my frame of mind atm, if i hadnt known him so long, he wasnt so sweet, and wasnt possibly emigrating, i would not be in the mood

but it is batman after all , it feel like it should be against the law not to meet him and say goodbye

Evening Ladies

Nothing to report here, but will be joining most this evening watching XF.

For those of you who are doing anything more exciting, have a good time!

Is the sun over the yardarm yet?

im about to indulge so i would say yes

I think you deserve a few Lou. Hope everything is ok.

Right I'm off in the direction of the fridge, a beer for me. Cheers.

im having a giant disaronno on the rocks

and peeling potatoes for a shepherds pie

i'm ok thank you, just a bit up and down atm what with one thing and another

i took the younger 3 out for the afternoon (pics on fb for those of you who are on mine), and did some washing up with the radio tuned into classic disco numbers

its too cold to go out, i am happy enough pottering about here in my fluffy boot slippers

Lou - Disaronno , I've succeeded so far in keeping off the xmas baileys but I can't see it lasting much longer.

FWIW I think your exh is out of order, congrats on managing to keep your hands off him so far.

Can someone add me on Facebook?

search for me on fb by my email morticiatsf at googlemail dot com

exh is always seemingly morally wrong but he manages to get away with it legally, hence why i dont take up the many offers i have had to sort him out illegally, because i know it would be me and the kids who suffered for it, and as much as i dislike him, i love my kids and couldnt have that on my consicence

Lou - found you and sent a friend request lol. Thanks.

Phew. Blimey, I'm totally competent at IT until it comes to social networking lol.

Lou - I could have written what you said about your exh and offers to sort him out. But we can't do it to our dcs. Mine is calm for now and I'm enjoying the peace. He has played some trump cards in the past and I would have happily seen him in hell.

i have sent you a message

i had an offer to fix it again only a few days ago

this was probably one i would take most seriously as they would be able to most likely sort it an official legal way, but it would mean i was obliged to them iyswim, and i cant be obliged to anyone

he would also have sorted it illegally if legal didnt work, but i really don want to be dragging others into the shite

Lou - they are not worth it.

Believe me at one point I was very close. The man is now skint and in the gutter where he belongs, and he tried to bring me down with him but didn't succeed.

Quiet on here.

Is there an xfactor thread yet?

Lou - you're a genius.

Some of you might have a weirdo asking to be your friend on FB lol.

oh i was just coming on to warn them all

evening all.

well... try and update.

monty and lou arsey ex's... i have lots of peace with mine away.. but starting to really get bit down about being couped up and stuck indoors with no escape for a drink or really any sort of life.

i managed to steal a couple of hrs xmas shopping/lunch with bluebell. but tbh... i couldn't even relax and enjoy it as pushed for time and so much on my mind re kids/work/xmas. but felt obliged to go as had canx on him thru the week.

when i finally spoke to knight on the phone he was trying to be humourous.. and i ended up being pretty damn sharp as took it as rude. think he's got the hint.

oh.. speaking of marvel. met him in supermarket. bloody hell that was awkward.. soon as he seen me he had the face on like i'd killed him puppy flashed followed by a look of anger before he stormed over.. then was suddenly all niceness and light to make chit chat... really glad i'm out of that... there's a warning signal if i ever seen one... i kid you not.. his facial expressions were that of a panto dame!!!

usual couple of texts through the week with beachbum.

irish... hmmm....ordering him some comedy tickets for him xmas... so much for something small. they are sold out the ones i want. the idea of a gift came like bolt of lightening, flash bulb style idea when i seen an add for the tour... so much for a token gift..... i really need a slap ladies.... another reason i felt awkward with bluebell was i felt guilty over irish. he had text me during being out with bluebell and all i could think about was i realy should reply to irish.

slap some sense it to me on this aswell.. as friends we shouldn't still be texting/calling every day. for example.. yesterday was 9 texts and 1 call. (just checked) that was a quiet day as i never sent him reply till i got home at 7pm.although it was me who called him at 9am to get him to look up a number from his office. must try and cut this back...

anyhow..there is always at least one of 2 gifts every year where you hit it bang on the nail on head isn't there.. and you think the recipient would love em!!

and... my boxing day dinner seems to be getting out of hand.... numbers are at 11... and thats not including kids in head count. it was supposed to be 6... but i keep inviting people thinking they will say no.. but they keep saying yes... on the plus side. the rule is... you can only come if you bring something to eat/drink or play.

only thing i have to cook on the day is the main. guests are sorting starters/dessert/drinks/games/cheese boards

no idea where on earth we're going to fit 11 round a 6 person table. will have to find a folding number from somewhere or borrow one.

hows everyone else?

anyone on dates?

Juice - you have a thing for Irish. You might need 'the talk' again or do you still not really want to be hooked up? I know he said what he said but sometimes you can't have everything eh?

I have ds and bil 2 teenage dnephs's, a 24yo dnef (in a wheelchair with serious issues)and dniece (19) with bf coming on boxing day. (just doing the maths lol). Right so I think inc my lot that's 11.

Am thinking buffet.

Dniece/neice??? is due 27 December. Could be fun lol.

Lou -

ASBM - have you fallen asleep again?

quick post from me as mrjack is coming over in a bit, dvd and bottle of wine tonight hope you all have a good eve with whatever ur doing

monty - i honestyl cant see what benefit having "the talk" will have.... i dont know what i want.. and i'm 99.9% sure he doesn't know what he wants.

suppose we are having our cake and eating it. but not really in the sex sense. we've had 2 slip ups since we became "friends"... when we meet its genuinely as friends. i.e no kissing/hugging on sofa like before. but it is like the elephant in the room sometimes.. and everytime we part i dash off in an awkward moment of whether or not we should do good bye kiss... i do believe on one occasion i shook his hand rather formally
.. on the most recent meets.. i've decided i'm off. got shoes , jacket and off out the door shouting bye before he even has a chance to get off the sofa... leaving him standing at the front door shouting his goodbye accross the garden and road as i wave like a loony.

but.... we do find it handy having someone attractive and entertaining to go to dinner/drinks/shopping with.

betty - have fun not watching your dvd

i have to admit... i'm more than a little concerned about the fact on boxing day when he's here so will my kids.. albeit in a gathering style with friends and family...it will be very odd him seeing me in mummy mode.

Juice - ROFL and PMSL at shaking hands formally. OHMIGOD. Can't stop laughing. Quote of the week for sure. I can't type for laughing.

On Boxing Day he will fall in love with you when he sees you in Mummy mode. He'll look at you lovingly, come out to the kitchen and pour you a drink while he's helping you to serve the ordooves, he'll throw his arms around you and tell you he loves you more than anything and you will realise that you love him too. Your dc's will love him and so will your family.

Think I need to lay off the xmas baileys beers now.

monty - aww bless you really are in the festive spirit.

i doubt very very much this will happen. the undying love bit. it's not his style.

but... i daresay he'll be pouring wine and helping out. and i'm certain my family will like him.

i do however have a feeling he may realise he's throwing himself right in the deep end and back out last minute and not come and stay home like a big scrooge he is.

he had very bad xmasses when he was growing up. so he tends to shun the season.

he only put his xmas tree up after i told him i would break in and decorate his whole house in garish tinself if he didn't get into the spirit of things

juice, just see what unfolds, no need for talks, you are both (i imagine) v aware of whats going on

just make the most of it and dont stress over it

as for the kids, well its a big a deal as you make it isnt it?

(waits for someone to namechange and tell me i would say that cos i parade a series of random guys through my house)

Juice - I am a silly romantic. (not with dp tho lol). But I do know his kind iyswim. I'm convinced. He would never come on bd if he hadn't got a big thing for you woman! Ooo let's see how scroogy he is when he's there eh? I am a bah humbug me if it wasn't for dcs.

Lou - namechangers are cowards.

its ideal situ the introduce him to kids. even if we are going to persue this friends thing.

there's no pressure on him as its not a meeting set up specifically for him to meet them. plus the kids will have all the other relatives and friends keeping them entertained

i'm not expecting it to make either of us change our minds or resolve the situ.

it just seems to be happening. i'm not going to specifically point out i have the kids. as he already knows this. he's not mentionned it, and neither have i... so its assumed he's probably thinking similar to me about the situ.

but will say no more. Well, apart from it is an ideal situ for him to meet dcs.

Did you get him the boxers?