Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

oh hell no to self imposed celibacy.

i'm figuring none of them are good enough for my time and effort right now so would rather have nothing

right ladies...... own up, who forgot to do the rain dance??

bigT has been called to silage. so unless it starts pouring down or a machine breaks my date is off.

plus ella has developed chicken pox too and i want to be back incase she gets up through the night so i cant go meet him later once he's done..... mind you, some days he's doing silage till 1am.

oh no, call to silage
he sounds interesting tho rj, posh yorkshire, hope you manage a meet soon
lou so for you. Do you think mm thought you were fairly indiffent to him? he said he was surprised you were upset . or is he just completely mannerless and dick driven. Better to know now .. don't leave the thread tho! even if you don't date
sounding good, itm

Hi ladies,
Oh, lou, how rubbish, I'm so sorry that some men are such idiots.
rj how frustrating, maybe best to know where the priorities are and are going to be??
asbm I am glad to be smiling for you.

I seem to have got back together with previosuly exbf. He came down on Saturday and once dd was napping we got a bit closer than I intended and he stayed overnight and I am a bit confused about it all. He was so lovely and I just don't know now.

told my mum to head off. so even if he gets away now i wont be meeting. but doesn't look like he will. just started a new field. so he's expecting to be at it till the early hours of morning..... with me texting to keep him company ... i shall obligue once i've put dc to bed.

damn.... more feret catching to arrange another date.

mousie - silage is crazy money. i deffo wouldn't turn down a shift just for a coffee. no matter how much i liked the guy.

and the date was always made on the condition he didn't get called out.

both myself and him made it clear from the start our priorities are not dates.

after the hassle of marvel, i'm focusing on study and kids as always. his priorities are work and his dd.

when we try to arrange dates there is equally as many times i cant due to my commitments as he cant due to his.

rj you sound quite keen! hope his gums are OK lol

i do find him very interesting. first pof gentleman where its been a real challenge iykwim. enjoying the cat and mouse required to get to this stage.

mm was the one who was saying he wanted a proper relationship , i cant see how he would have thought i was indifferent

he was just hoping i would say yeh ok lets just have the odd no strings shag instead

he got a wake up call

anyway my best friend just discovered he went to school with someone we both know, and she said he had mental health issues, so maybe its got something to do with that

i now also have to find someone to come with me to my annual summer street bbq on saturday, to save me losing the will to live

batman (remember him?) has said he will let me know by thurs if he can accompany me or not

and that doesnt break my dating rule either, cos he is essentially a friend who would be coming to help me out

tho hot to look at i agree

yay batman!
us fit thread girls always liked him
ninah will reply when i have email back having probs tonite for some reason??
rj-disappointed for you hope the dcs are coping as the pox is hard work but easier to have done all at once iyswim like my brood did

oh and hi mousie good to see you back!
how are things with you?

yes i like him too

he would be chuffed but extremely embarrassed if he knew he had a fan club on here, he's a v modest guy

Knock knock ladies, remember me? I thought I'd drop bye and say hello

I've been totally snowed over the past few months, Selling the house, working, studying and.....the man!

Mr Trader is still around, it's been 3 months now and all is very well. It's all still slowly-slowly-the only pace I can manage right now but we are getting on really well....it would seem that he doesn't carry the dickhead DNA which is a change for me

Am three, count them, three stones lighter and shrinking on a weekly basis.

Hope you are well I will have a nose read through the thread and see how you have all been!

Hugs x

oh wow, hi dollparts.

all that extra exercise with nm must be helping shift weight. glad its going well.

asbm - ach its fine. you know what we ladies say about slow burners on here.

lou - oooh the batman. your celibacy didn't last long

aww we like batman
and need a catch up on msn me thinks!
alot of kids stuff going on here atm with end of year stuff etc as you know

rj i am not expecting to do that with him or actually meet him, he has already said he would do something else, so wont cancel that unless they are ok about it

he was coming as a friend

aww this moves too quick!
hey DP check you out!
am thrilled for you so nice to see you back!
need all the goss girl!!
xx

blimey all quiet on here!

That's what I thought asbm, I was beginning to wonder if it was something I said!

its a bit eeeeery eh

i had a prick of a man trying to chat today. al seemes nice. then went on msn and he got really offended when i pointed out i would be taller than him. he had no pic and i asked him to describe himself. he'd added a whole 2 inches to his profile

think shorty has issues. blocked him after he started saying i had a cheek to be picky with 2 kids.

then he sent me an email thru pof saying"aww,... only joking come back on and i'll apologise"

thanks but no thanks jekyl and hyde

ohh little man syndrome lol
glad you told him to go do one he sounds a right nob!
dp you said nothing wrong!
so come spill about yer new fella then
{nosey emoticon}

yeah dp come on spill some details? do you manage to see him regular?

Hmmm, where to begin. Well I see him at weekends (as exhb has DD every week) and ocasionally midweek when she's also there for the night when we can both make it.

It's nice as there is no pressure on me to explain why I can't do certain nights etc etc. He is very understanding of my situation.

What else would you like to know?

I don't want to start sounding all soppy and gushing like a sixteen year old...I must admit I still find myself grinning when his name comes up on my phone!!