Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Please or to access all these features

Lone parents

Use our Single Parent forum to speak to other parents raising a child alone.

god, one of those days where I just don't feel like I can be bothered to go through it all again tomorrow

50 replies

MascaraOHara · 11/06/2008 21:48

need a change

OP posts:
Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
MascaraOHara · 12/06/2008 15:12

Oh bless ya! it'll come back.. early yet!

do you just go over to feed it or do you live with your mum?

OP posts:
fawkeoff · 12/06/2008 15:14

no ive brought the cat to my house.....she never goes out and decides to piss off when she gets here......i dont know what the frig i am going to do, i wish someone would give me a break

MascaraOHara · 12/06/2008 15:21

Oh.. that's a bit different.. put up signs and if your mums house isn't hundredds of miles away check there later too..

buy a box of go-cat and walk the streets shaking it and calling th cats name.. gawd I feel for you.

how long til she comes back? could you try knocking on your neighbours doors and putting up posters

it's the sort of thing that would happen to me

OP posts:
fawkeoff · 12/06/2008 15:24

have knocked on their doors.....she only went away today....im justgoin to have to tell her when she gets back i am shitting it...

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:25

I seem to have got less organised with regard getting DCs to school etc rather than more and I can't really work out why that is.

I often find the summer months more tiring than winter in many ways tho I find the winter months more depressing and spend them longing for summer!

I had my bike stolen yesterday so that was nice surprise when I went to get it. Just the lock and wheel remaining.

I feel like I am struggling in every aspect of my life so know how you feel MOH.

Seem to have lost focus. Plus every weekday is like groundhog day.

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:26

PS Hope you find the cat FO

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:26

PS Hope you find the cat FO

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:26

PS Hope you find the cat FO

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:26

PS Hope you find the cat FO

citylover · 12/06/2008 15:26

sorry for triple posting!!!

MascaraOHara · 12/06/2008 15:36

I think City lover hopes you find the cat Fwakeoff

I think that's it CL.. weekdays feel like groundhog day.

Sorry to hear about your bike. my car has just been written off

OP posts:
AMAZINWOMAN · 12/06/2008 15:49

MascaraOHara, I know what you mean about it feeling like Groundhog day.

I want to do something different-but how and what can I do with children and no money.

I find it hard as people in work always have weekends full of fun-and I never do anything different

fawkeoff · 12/06/2008 15:53

FOUND THE CAT!!!!!!!!

someone must like me secretly
still havin a shite time though.

MascaraOHara · 12/06/2008 15:58

YEAY!!!! I think cityLovers posting must have helped lol

sometiems I just feel like I'm permanently grounded

I don't know why they don't say to all these young girls that want babies... Imagine being grounded and not allowed out after 7pm for the next 15 years.. well, that's what having a baby is like LOL

OP posts:
fawkeoff · 12/06/2008 16:02

thats a good form of contraception MOH
i'm just glad i am studying again....doin my Aleves in spetember if i pass my G.C.S.Es, think it has been a rock for me through the split....cant believe its nearly been a month since we broke up.....twas the right decision no mistake about that but it doesnt make the loneliness any easier does it

MascaraOHara · 12/06/2008 16:26

It's still so early for you FawkeOff.. you are doing so well dealing with everything. better than I would be

OP posts:
citylover · 12/06/2008 16:38

see it was the virtual vibes which made the cat turn up!!

It is very early days FO. Really it is.

Yes they should tell them that you may not even be able to pop to the shop for a pint of milk/packet of fags/bottle of wine. I just sometimes can't drag my two out of the house - though DS1 can be left alone.

fawkeoff · 12/06/2008 17:26

LOL it must have been the vibes x yeah i know its early day....but i honestly felt that a weight had been lifted off my shoulders...I really dont miss HIM i miss having someone to cuddle and hold hands with...but i will keep my chin and my kids will be happy ...baby steps for me

littlewoman · 14/06/2008 01:18

Every day is groundhog day. That is so damn true. In fact, it's so true, it's made me want to kill myself.

MisterIncredible · 14/06/2008 01:25

What would you like to be doing instead of what you are doing? I'm all ears. Not literally though, I have arms and legs and stuff.

MascaraOHara · 15/06/2008 09:29

LMAO LittleWoman.. it get's a bit like that doesn't it!

Try to block it out again lol

MisterIncredible.. lot's of things.. even just having some variation to the day would be nice.. drinking coffee instead of tea is an exciting thing for me these days

OP posts:
fawkeoff · 15/06/2008 11:50

have you had a nice weekend MOH????

MascaraOHara · 15/06/2008 20:23

Not really lol but thanks for asking..

I'm not sure where to start, think dd has been mildly but systematically bullied over at least the last term or so.. which I didn't know about and from what I had heard I had thought it was just a playground fallout. She doesn't want me to tell her teacher in case the teacher tells her off or said girl finds out etc (she's only just about to turn 6)

xp who is trying to get me back was on about coming round, very hard to keep saying no when you feel a bit low

oh and I've had to buy a new car, which I can't afford, so now have to budget hard and have no tea bags now until next Saturday

which means even less vafriation to the routine lol

OP posts:
MascaraOHara · 15/06/2008 20:24

blimey, I bet you're sorry you asked now.. lol, didn't mean to write anything other that.. not really.

OP posts:
fawkeoff · 15/06/2008 20:42

ROFL.....not at your suoer shit weekend though ....yeah just be careful with EXp because he will be picking up on your vulnerability and using it to his advantage.
And it is so hard when you feel that your children are upset, my daughter kept saying to me that she didnt like school and nobody liked her for about 2 weeks, she is 5 years ol and i didnt think anything of it at forst until she was dead set on staying home...she didnt want me to tell her teacher...but i rang in the morning and asked to see her at the main reception once DD had gone in class (so she didnt see or hear me)....the problem got dealt with and she never knew that i told her.((((((hugs))))))) im tellin ya sweetie life is dealing out a big shit cake at the minute and i keep getting slice after slice

New posts on this thread. Refresh page