God,I feel like a shit,never thougth I'd break someones heart

[tetti]

I had seen a guy 8 years my junior for 4 months on a very casual basis.We got on great,had great sex,and I feel alot of affection for him.However,he is not ready for a relationship,and,he sleeps with another girl I found out when I asked him,so no,we weren't exclusive.

Then a little while ago,I started chatting to a guy form a dating site.And omg,he's the sweetest ever.We talk on the phone for at least 2 hrs a day,we are so similar it's scary,and although he's extremely sexy and attractive,he's just not aware of it at all.
We can talk about everything,and he both tick all eachothers boxes so to speak.
I never thought a guy like him existed and vice versa.
We are shitscared of meeting this weekend,as we both know this could really lead to something,and I don't mean a little fling...
He keeps thinking about me all day and look at my photo he has on his mobile,and I do just the same:-),soppy,I know...
There's just this crazy,unbeliavable connection there,and it has blown us both away completely,it's soo surreal.He wondered what the hell someone like me were doing on a dating site,and I wondered the same thing about him.
Turns out we were both there for the same reason,we both work,all our mates are paired up,and neither of us are into clubbing,so we don't really meet any new faces.
I have got such a good feeling about this wonderful guy.
So why do I feel so bad about letting the casual guy down? Am I a complete bitch?!Because I do feel like one...

Definetly,I will not rush anything,if it's meant to be,it' meant to be,but I will def not try and force it.
He just rang me again (twice in an eve,just to have a chat,unheard of,lol)
Well,for the first time ever,we'll be having dinner together tomorrow,not just the old bootycall:-)

Again,I'm not reading into things at all now,I'm just taking it as a sign that he's starting to relax more around me,and not just come around for some fun(although I'm not surprised if that also happens,but really,I'm happy just to enjoy his company)
I have stopped pining for him when I don't see him,although of course I think about him,but I just get on with my life,not sitting there like before thinking-Oh,when will I see him again?.Obviously,me not being in touch with him for some time must have made him think,and that can only be a good thing...

That internet experience left a seriously bad taste in my mouth(he sent a very abusive message via pof).But,as I said,my profile is now deleted,and at least today's absolutely dreadful experience(really,it was even worse than it sounds!You'd have to have been there to believe it!) has made me realise that i really should not go looking elsewhere.

as long as you realise he might be just saying things to you because he thinks other guys are pissing on his territory, and you make sure you are happy where you are atm , then it's all good

tetti dont feel guilty for kicking to kerb a guy who is playing you and sleeping with other women you are worth more than that, the internet guy sounds lovely so give it a go, go on, go on

tinkerbel she is past that now

she is back with guy one and found the ointernet guy was not all that

tinkerbel she is past that now

she is back with guy one and found the ointernet guy was not all that

oh tetti I had missed the bit about you meeting him, oh well at least you tried and gave it a go, nothing ventured nothing gained, although I still feel that this younger guy is a playa and if you can handle him sleeping woith other women then you are a stronger person than what I am, one day there will be someone out there who you wont look back with who will treat you right

tinkerbel......read the whole thread!

the internet man stank and was vile!!

she is back with the original bloke!!

How did you escape Tetti? From the internet date??

Lol,hahaha,you will not believe this one,go how bad was I?
Ehum,I used the old line-I need to go to the ladies (and then I scarpered!!!)
He was getting so sleazy I was panicking big time,my mate got a txt from me and she rang-Get outa there babe,now!!!!!.

Seriously,I do feel sick when I think about last night,it truly was beyond horrible.

The original guy has no idea I'd even been talking t other guys on the internet,naturally,so it's not like he think's-Oh,another man is getting in on my territory.
Player or not,I just enjoy his company when I see him,for now that suits me down to a t.
he is young,deadfit,and adorable (and he smells of roses!,oh ,and he dresses real well,not in some clothes you'd expect to be found on random in some skip! Seriously,that's how bad the other guy was).
I def learnt a serious lesson yesterday,go for what you know,not for what you don't.
In other words,I'll sure as hell won't meet a guy from the internet again.
Sure there are nice ones,but i don't like to buy the piggy in the bag!(lol)

well i wouldnt right off the internet altogether

it is amethod of meeting people specially good if you dont have a work place or supplies oif riends to introduce you or go out with