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My XP is complaining that he has seen DD for half an hour more than his allocated time, over the course of a fortnight and....

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Aimsmum · 24/08/2007 16:57

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Aimsmum · 24/08/2007 17:34

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Aimsmum · 24/08/2007 17:36

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ScummyMummy · 24/08/2007 17:37

What a of monumenatlly proportions. Dd is so lucky that you are lovely and protect her from knowing about the full extent of his heinously disgusting and unfatherly attitude, aimsmum.

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cylon · 24/08/2007 17:55

how did you end up having sex with him in the first place?
he sounds like a waste of air.

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Tinkerbel5 · 24/08/2007 18:51

Aimsmum does he pay you maintenance, is that why he is like this with you, trying to make a point that cause he pays you some money that is his responsibility over and done with apart from when he has your daughter ? Some men would be grateful for a couple of hours visitation but are denied access and there is your ex who dont want to see his daughter more than his allocated time , your daughter will soon get fed up going to his house if he dont do anything with her as it wont be much fun, maybe in the future if he cant see her on his set days then he forgoes access until the next time rather than changing your days to suit him.

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aloha · 24/08/2007 19:53

after I got together with dh, I read my dsd's early school books about her weekend, when my dh had her three weekends out of four. Her reports were full of puppet shows and visiting grandparents (on both sides) and parties and playdates, trips to the seaside and parks.
It was why I had kids with him, frankly.

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pooka · 24/08/2007 20:03

Ainsmum

He sounds like such a waste of space. What kind of a father does he think he is? What an immature response to fatherhood and the responsibilities (and joys) it brings.

Reading your post has made me so angry.

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pirategirl · 25/08/2007 09:29

HI Aimsmum,

God your post just shows how ridiculoous these fathers have become.

I think rising above it is the best way, yet don't you find that after a while they say or do something so mad, that you can't help but react.

I hope your little one had an ok time.

wil check back later.

take care.

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Aimsmum · 25/08/2007 17:34

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NAB3 · 25/08/2007 17:43

I wouldn't let my child see their father who refuses to feed her. He is unbelievable.

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Tinkerbel5 · 26/08/2007 11:01

a trans fats sausage roll for breakfast, maybe he could give her toast next time

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NKF · 26/08/2007 11:15

What a mean spirited man. Poor you and your poor daughter.

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grouchyoscar · 27/08/2007 12:58

OOoooooooo, aimsmum, he needs his legs slapping and be made to sit on the naughty step for at least 10 minutes.


What a twonk

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