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I am SO angry right now, I can't even speak properly

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 15:57

Remember my xp and my friend who apparently were just friends, well it is all a load of bollocks, he has been at her flat nearly all week, taken her kids on days out, and now today has collected my kids to take them to the museum and guess who has gone too ? yep her and her kids.

How the fuck did he think i wouldn't find out.

They have both made me out to look thick and basically just trated me and my kids feelings like we don't matter.

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allgonebellyup · 09/08/2007 16:11

fanjo through a mangle

thats what i might do now just to gain a little sort of sex life..

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 16:12

She is erm 24 or 25 i think, not sure.

I know why she is interested in him. It's because she's told the married bloke she was shaggin to dissapear, and as she has told me before, she needs lots of sex.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 16:13

brb need to get washing in

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 16:14

Well good luck to her if thats all she can catch.

An ageing, unemployed, unresponsible, broke twat.

A real catch.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 16:39

Yeah thats what the friend that told me said, and she's right.

God i wish i had a some vodka, need a stiff drink.

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 16:43

when will they be back

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 16:46

Not sure, it was about this time, last time. If he's not back by 5 I will ring and see where they are,.

Infact will do that now, because I bet they are all round hers.

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 16:54

He is such an idiot.

how many kids has she got?

LIZS · 09/08/2007 16:54

Sorru he is being so flakey and playing at being a family without the ties of his own kids. However deep down you knew this was a possibilty and that he would do it just to p!ss you off. Try not to rise to it, hard though.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:12

Well he's been back and gone again and he won't be back anytime soon.

His excuse for not asking the kids to go to the park was that i'd have said no. I told him that was bollocks, he only didn't ask to cover his own back.

He denied the rest which of course i knew he would.

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 17:14

did the kids say who they were with today?

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:16

Yeah as soon as they came in, and I said 'yeah i know', at which point he said 'oh and i suppose thats a problem'

No shit sherlock.

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 17:16

what a nob head.

is she really that desperate?

How old are her kids?

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:17

Her kids are nearly 8 and nearly 4.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:17

Oh and in all of the arguing, he called me her name.

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tiredemma · 09/08/2007 17:18

does he realise that you are angry because he doesnt bother with his kids- or do you think that he thinks that you are jealous?

tiredemma · 09/08/2007 17:19

what a prick.

do you see her at school?

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:21

He thinks I am jealous, said he can't see why it matters and doesn't get why I am angry that he went to the park with her and her kids.

I will see her every day at school yeah, used to stand with her whilst we waited for kids to come out etc.

He said he hasn't slept with her, I said I didn't give a shit if he had or not, and that I didn't and won't now ever believe a single word that comes out of his mouth.

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LIZS · 09/08/2007 17:21

so he has the ultimate respect for her too then He has such a good track record that she'd be a fool not to snap him up NOT ! He's just flattered that someone so young still bothers to look twice plus he can wind you up at the same time. What a pitiful basis for a relationship , if that is what it is.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:23

Oh and apparently other friends of mine saw him, not sure when. He thought that was who told me, but it wasn't.

Loks like i was the last to know.

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nightowl · 09/08/2007 17:25

so angry for you nutty. they really do deserve each other. you're better off out of it. when i split with my ds's dad 8 1/2 years ago he went to live with a guy at work who lived near my "friends". they all started going to the local pub together which was bad enough when they knew how badly he had treated me (even so, our split was mutual and quite amicable at the time). i never expected them to take sides, but then instead of giving me any support whatsoever (think newly single mother, never lived on my own before, very lonely, suddenly looking after a poorly 18 month old) i suddenly got lots of phonecalls from these two girls...hysterical laughter, telling me how pathetic i was now i was on my own and how much one of them had enjoyed sleeping with my ex

i did realise afterwards that they were a couple of bitches and not worth my time but it didn't feel great then.

LIZS · 09/08/2007 17:27

Try not to think like that , you suspected as much weeks ago, but they each lied. It will only grind you down if you let it.

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:33

nightowl, i don't know how these people sleep.

For some reason, I still had some of his belongings cluttering up my landing, so they are now on the front lawn, and the bin men come tommorow

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nightowl · 09/08/2007 17:34

its nice to have a clean landing...is good for the energy flow through the house i believe

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nutcracker · 09/08/2007 17:37

LOL, yeah it does feel good

He knows the stuff is there, asked me to take it back in until sat, I said erm no.

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