I am tired of the converstaions i have with my x when he chooses to ring. It happens out of the blue and basically he still has the power to break me with his words. I said if he wasn't going to start being consistent he should leave us alone. He went into a barrage of he would see them but how can he help when i don't help myself. I don't know what he is talking about he is far too clever with his manipulation. I ended up crying after being made to feel like everything was always my fault. Then the line he says which gets me everytime is..if you can't cope and manage on your own then my girlfriend and i will have them. I said no thanks, his answer is well shut the f up then and stop moaning, you are doing it because you want to.
My life is fine until i get all this, how do i handle what he says, without him breaking me down again and why the hell can he still.