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Am I wrong? So angry

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Jemima14 · 05/10/2015 21:33

I posted my story here a while ago & got some great feedback. Hopefully you can help me out again. I'm a single mammy to a 1 year old dd, father not involved at all, lives in US, has recently been in contact wanting to establish some sort of contact, but it has been minimal & its only an email or text here and there. I have sent some photos and more recently, I mashed a few home videos together, my little girl playing, eating, being cute, all different ones about 4 mins long.

WELL, i just had a look at his fb page & he posted it, plus all the photos i've sent him. With lots of messages.

Now, half of me, almost feels somewhat pleased, he completley denied her when she was born, so on some level its like, well, its nice of you to want to acknowledge your daughter. BUT i find it really weird & not happy with all of those pictures (private) being posted to loads of strangers.

And the video, photos are one thing, but the video, shes playing naked, my sisters, my necies are in it, in pyjamas, etc. There would be very few people I would show it to, and i am shocked he has posted that. Am I overreacting. I actually just feel shocked.

Help

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steppemum · 10/10/2015 21:56

I think that a lot of people are stupid about kids and FB either because they don't have kids them selves, so they have never had to consider it, or because they have no sense of internet security over anything.

Either way, once you have told him, the issue is then whether he respects your wishes.

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