Partners ex wife wants access to our child!!!??? Can I refuse?

[AngelBabyOct05]

Hi,

I have just split with my partner (we weren't married or living together) and we've agreed that he has our daughter (who is 1 yr) Tues and Thurs nights and every other weekend. Access for him I have no issue with.

However......I can't stand his ex-wife as she has caused no end of problems for me but she wants to see my child and he says that when he has my daughter he has every right to take her round there if he wants. He has two children with her BTW.

Do I have a right to refuse that he does this?

His ex is nothing to do with me and my daughter and I don't want her cuddling my baby girl. The woman is poisionus and manipulative and it's destroying me to think I have no say in where my child goes and who she sees when she's not with me.

What can I do? Am I being selfish or over dramatic? He says I am and that I can't tell him not to take her round there.

Please help.

Angel Baby

Hi ladies,

My ex partner has one of his sons live with him already and the youngest son of 13 lives with his mother but visits every other weekend when my daughter goes to my ex. non contact between the siblings isn't a problem. My daughter loves her older brothers and sees them lots.

I just don't want his ex wife near my little girl as there is simply no need for her to be in our life. He might as well take my daughter to meet some woman up the street for all the relvance it has. His ex is nothing to do with me or my daughter so why does she feel the need to be allowed contact with her???

The siblings see my daughter lots, her dad see's her lots - who is this woman to me?? No one, a complete stranger. Do you see why I think it's weird weird weird!

AB.xx

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i think that your dd should have contact with her siblings but can't she see them when your x has them at his house?