What is the best way to get out of paying CSA?

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My ex has not pay maintenance for many years and fled from the court orders twice last 12 months ago. As it is the anniversary of a year of not paying it spurred me to have a look how these fathers get out of paying maintenance!

It took me 3 minutes to find an internet site where a father asks

What is the best way to get out of paying CSA?

The first response....

kill her

Two simple words...first response!

there were several others saying to kill the mother too, one saying 'it's the only way!'

:(

I thought my ex was a rather unique Psychopathic Narcissist who left petrol bomb warnings and kicking my door in when he received a court letter or anything! I was wrong! I am so not alone and so :( this is the easy way for some sick bastards to get out of paying for their children!

Wonder if the deadbeat who wrote kill her was my ex?

Punmum I bet I'm better educated than you and certainly have more common sense. You are talking pure garbage. How can anyone "sponge" off the other parent for their own child's needs and wants? You're an ediot.

Is a father never texpected to be financially responsible for their child then Punmum?

Or any non resident parent as you do realise it's not always the men?

I can't decide what your angle is, you don't actually make any sense. Bitter, little bit confused and quite mean but no sense.

I have a sneaky feeling your personal situation is blinding you to the basic moral duty of any parent... to emotionally and financially support their child.

Out of curiosity what made you so bitter?

My ex hated paying child maintenance but because we eventually went through csa he had to, he used to call it “my money “ as in that’s “your money” in your account hope you enjoy it ! I would reply actually it’s your children’s money and it barely covers food ! He left for Germany and now lucky him doesn’t have to pay a penny , claims he doesn’t work there so doesn’t have money ,doesn’t bother with contact with his kids . Ive read there is ways to get csa through a father that’s moved from uk to Germany but I don’t have any details of where he lives , address etc I only have his phone number , and if he is telling the truth about working which I doubt he is, I wouldn’t be entitled to payments .

Scotzgal88 apply for a REMO, which is a reciprocal child maintenance order. It's a free service which chases deadbeat parents who leave the UK to get out of paying for their childrens keep. Just tell them everything you know and they may find him and take him to court, forcing him to pay.

My ex tried becoming a full time student but was still earning a decent income on the side. At face value the CMS agreed he did not need to pay a penny. However they reconsidered that when they realised he was also earning. The thing is it makes no difference even if they do decide that the NRP should be paying because they can just ignore the letters, refuse to answer the phone and hop from short contract to contract so no DOE can catch up with them. The CMS is set up for parents who comply, the parents who do could easily manage with a family based arrangement and avoid the CMS altogether. It cannot deal with awful people determined to play the system.

Oo oo! Me me! I have a good one!

My ex had an 'epiphany' and decided he no longer wanted to part of this society in a sort of 'stick it to the man' thing. He claims he lives off the land and without money, offering 'exchanges' for things he needs in labour or favours. Thus having no money to pay maintenance. Last I heard he was crowdfunding a trip to Peru to 'find himself'.

The last time I tried to discuss maintenance for his child, I was told 'he has no worthly goods to give her'. She's 13 next month, never seen a penny from him. He also has 2 other children elsewhere.

Absolute scumbag

Do you think the system would be the same if men were overwhelmingly mostly the resident parent? I think not. It is certainly a mans world.

Step one. Have a penis. Step 2) decide not to. Job done