Normally DDs father and I are civil. We have minimum contact and only speak when it involves discussing DD.
Every so often however, he becomes unbearable. Its happening again and I really gave had enough this time.
He has rewritten our entire relationship in his head. He was violent and abusive but now all he seems to recall is that I spent all my time in bed. Apoarently I was the abuser.
The reason he talks about my time in bed is due to the fact he didnt do a single night feed when DD was little. He would even accuse me of lying about.having been up with her because he was a heavy sleeper. So when he got up around 8am, I would give DD to him and go back to bed until around 10am. Is that wrong?
Anyway, with this pregnancy I have been very sore and as I have placenta previa I have been taking things easy. So I havent been getting up at the crack of dawn with DD every day. I get her breakfast and we watch some tv in the mornings. Then I get up and get on.
DD has noticed this ofcourse and has told him "mummy is tired a lot" which he hears as "mummy is a lazy bitch and isnt looking after me". Now he is threatening to go to social services.
I have nothing to hide, but I have had their involvement before and really could do without the stress. Im just really fed up with him threatening me like this.
WWYD? Should I call them myself? Explain the situation and ask them to speak to him?
His partner is overbearing and seems to think she comes before me in DDs life, so I know she will back him up.