Bugger. Just... bugger

[Snorbs]

My ex has been remarkably stable over the last year. Stone-cold sober, reliable, trust worthy and even pleasant. This is in very marked (not to mention welcome) contrast to the previous years of alcoholism.

So I turned up at her flat this evening to drop the DCs off and she's pissed as knickers :(

The DCs are in tears as I had to bring them back home but not before I got a torrent of abuse off the ex. The Fuck-Up Fairy is well and truly back.

Bugger.

I have nothing to add and no experience other than feeling the rough end of x's fist when he was drunk a few times but I am compelled to send you masses of love and hugs :( so sad for those of you dealing with the fall out of anothers addiction like that. :(

XXXxxx

Thanks for all the experiences and links. It does somehow help to know you're not the only one; and others' experiences of how to get out can be strengthening. I will definitely re read co- dependent no more. I have it somewhere. Thanks all for good wishes, strength to us all!