Hi
I live in Copmanthorpe, on the West side of York, right by the A64 for commuting to Leeds, and right on the ringroad for the hospital. I commute to Leeds and it take about 40 - 45 minutes at 7.30am. I went to the hospital this morning, and it took about 25 minutes although that was holiday traffic. Having said that, DH got me to the maternity department in 17 minutes through rush hour ring road traffic when DC2 started looking like she was going to arrive in the car!
Copmanthorpe is a large primary, 60 to a year, rated outstanding on Ofsted. Feeds into Tadcaster Grammar School but plenty of choice for secondary schools in York. Has all the usual groups - cubs/scouts, brownies/guides, swimming at the local school pool, etc - and is only 10 - 15 minutes drive away from York centre is you want to go shopping or have an evening out. It also has a very handy bus route to Leeds and the East Coast, which is about an hour away.
We love living here, it has plenty of amenities, good pub, Chinese, Indian, fish and chips, co-op, Londis, beauty salon, library, hairdressers etc etc, and everyone is really friendly. The only thing I don't know about are childminders, because my parents also live in the village and look after my two DC, however I do know there is a very popular nursery and after-school club at the sports centre and also a breakfast club/after-school club just starting up at school.
The only downside is that the traditional village centre is very small, and most of the village is large housing estates, so if you want an older property, you might have to wait a while before one comes up for sale. Although there is a very pretty three bed cottage for sale on Main Street I noticed the other day, if that's your kind of thing.
If Copmanthorpe doesn't quite fit the bill, then Rufforth, Hessay, Bishopthorpe, Acaster Malbis, Appleton Roebuck are all in the same area, near the A64 and the ring road, and are all worth a loo. Bish is the same size as Cop but a bit nearer town, the others are much more "villagey" IYSWIM.
Hope that helps, sorry for the essay, and best of luck!
PS I was caught in the rain today, driving on the M1. Utterly terrifying, I had to pull on to the hard shoulder because I couldn't see anything.