Hi Mamagoose
I had a v similar experience to Bebespain - was induced and given a c-section after 12 hour labour. But I don't regret having my baby here - his health was paramount throughout the whole pregnancy. I was given loads of tests and checks - I'm on private health care but would have had similar treatment on the public system.
I found the post baby stage v hard without health visitors calling (though have read a lot of reports on MN that suggest that was no bad thing! ) and no mother and baby groups nearby. But you would be fine, having had two babies already, I'm sure!
I guess if you want a natural, limited intervention birth, you're going to struggle in Madrid. There is a water birth centre in Alicante that is supposed to be lovely and I know of people who have driven down there to give birth (five hour drive!).
Aside from all that, Spain is a wonderful place to bring up kids. We love it here - everyone makes such a fuss of ds and there's a really strong sense of community. I often see old men telling teenagers off (just for little things like sitting in front of the metro doors or playing on playground swings) but you never see that in the UK - people are too scared!
Anyway, hope you decide to give it a go here - even if it is post-birth. Let me know if you need any help!
Impy x