Irish, I saw your other thread about education, and have lurked on this one to see how you are getting on. If I may suggest, based on my experience, you should definitely go for location rather than kitchen and garden. I'm afraid given the rental market, and the way the Dutch live, you are extremely unlikely to get a kitchen or a garden that is any way comparable to what you might get in Ireland or the UK. The Dutch do not have big gardens, unless you take a large detached house in a village, and these tend to be well above the 2,000 mark. I have yet to see a decent kitchen. Or a decent oven! It is more usual here, almost standard really, to have an open plan living room and kitchen. Frequently, the kitchen is along one wall only, with limited work surface area.
Life here is more like 1950s in the UK/Ireland. Children still play in the streets and in neighbourhood play areas. Therefore, the Dutch reason there is no real need to have a big garden.....(they are very sensible and logical at times).
Yesterday I picked up the 2012 Expat Survival Guide, a free publication by Expatica. It's full of useful information for when you first arrive - it's small booklet covering income tax, education, relocation, employment, healthcare, housing, finance, registration, transport, essential numbers etc. It's just the sort of thing you need when your internet hasn't been set up and you don't know who to call or how to find stuff out. I will happily post it to you if you would like to PM me an address.