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Thread #6, living with incurable cancer, taking ALL the drugs, and remembering our fallen comrades

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SewingBees · 24/06/2025 15:08

New thread!

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Enigma53 · 11/07/2025 12:46

Have you broken up from school now @lucysmam? What meds are you on? At least it’s being sorted now.

lucysmam · 11/07/2025 14:54

No, we have another week and 2 days to go. So so ready for it to be done!

I'm still on the Abemaciclib/Letrozole combo. You'd think they were new drugs with the farce it's been!

sellotapechicken · 11/07/2025 22:13

@lucysmam I’ve messaged you.
dh is happy to chat to talk you through it and if he can’t help directly he’ll give your details to a barrister who will help xxx

Enigma53 · 13/07/2025 11:18

Oral fucking thrush, no taste buds, cracked lips, cracked skin, bits of skin peeling off my tongue. I’m going to fucking cry!!!!!😢😢

SewingBees · 13/07/2025 12:42

@Enigma53 That really sucks. What's the treatment?

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Enigma53 · 13/07/2025 12:48

@SewingBees gemcitabine and docetaxol. Think I may be sick. Just can’t do it

RedRosesPinkLilies · 13/07/2025 15:39

@Enigma53 you need nystatin. Can you get it via chemo helpline?

sellotapechicken · 13/07/2025 17:24

Enigma53 · 13/07/2025 11:18

Oral fucking thrush, no taste buds, cracked lips, cracked skin, bits of skin peeling off my tongue. I’m going to fucking cry!!!!!😢😢

You need to get some nystatin and some oral local anaesthetic mouth wash. You could go to oooh?

RedRosesPinkLilies · 13/07/2025 20:55

I’ve tried facebook messaging her

SewingBees · 14/07/2025 12:22

FFS. Just put a film on to watch and the main character has fucking cancer. This happened to me last week as well. No warning in the preamble. Give me a break!

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RedRosesPinkLilies · 14/07/2025 17:47

I did that too. We need to warn each other. On too much morphine here

RedRosesPinkLilies · 14/07/2025 17:59

I did watch The Replacement on Netflix - far fetched, but nothing to do with cancer. Was on bbc - so decent programme

SewingBees · 14/07/2025 22:22

I'm watching North Shore on Netflix. It's reminding me of my trip to Sydney last year and living there half a lifetime ago.

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EachandEveryone · 15/07/2025 00:09

Oh gosh you have a much more refined tv taste then I do. Since this happened I can only watch trash. And both the soaps have cancer stories going which is a pain.

RedRosesPinkLilies · 15/07/2025 05:13

@EachandEveryone I watched it in snippets - sometimes literally seconds. Couldn’t really be bothered. But then I had to know what happened 🤣

RedRosesPinkLilies · 15/07/2025 05:15

@SewingBees I forgot your trip- remember when that was a big deal? Was exciting to go so far

SewingBees · 15/07/2025 08:12

@RedRosesPinkLilies Hard to believe it was nearly a year ago. This year we're going to Wales - slightly closer to home!

My friend who lives in Sydney is coming over in November for a few weeks, I'm looking forward to seeing her again.

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Enigma53 · 15/07/2025 09:37

Off to a&E when I can stop vomiting.
I can’t believe I just asked my partner to euthanise me! 😱😢

sellotapechicken · 15/07/2025 11:19

Enigma53 · 15/07/2025 09:37

Off to a&E when I can stop vomiting.
I can’t believe I just asked my partner to euthanise me! 😱😢

Are you ok? Sending you so much love

Enigma53 · 15/07/2025 18:06

Been admitted. Severely neutropenic 😢 Oral thrush in oesophagus

SewingBees · 15/07/2025 20:51

@Enigma53 I hope you are well looked after. Are you likely to get a blood transfusion?

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RedRosesPinkLilies · 15/07/2025 21:17

@Enigma53 not much I can say. Thinking of you

sellotapechicken · 16/07/2025 02:38

Enigma53 · 15/07/2025 18:06

Been admitted. Severely neutropenic 😢 Oral thrush in oesophagus

Thinking of you. Can you have visitors?

Enigma53 · 16/07/2025 18:40

partner has been and gone. On iv antibiotics, fluconazole, potassium, and injections to boost bone marrow function. Just took a tiny bite of a soft white bread sandwich; half the skin came out my mouth too 🤢🤮

How is everyone on this shitty day??

sellotapechicken · 16/07/2025 19:12

Enigma53 · 16/07/2025 18:40

partner has been and gone. On iv antibiotics, fluconazole, potassium, and injections to boost bone marrow function. Just took a tiny bite of a soft white bread sandwich; half the skin came out my mouth too 🤢🤮

How is everyone on this shitty day??

Aw man that sounds awful! If you want some company I’ll come and bring some ice lollies! I’m literally melting today

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