I am in a cp & we are about to have our 1st baby in November.
We have luckily been sucessful using a known donor - we have agreed on minimal contact. none of us want him to take the 'father' role, however we have agreed for him to be around when child wants to know where s/he came from/looks like/any medical issues etc...how this will work out in reality, we'll have to wait & see, but we are all open to working together on this.
Does anyone have any direct experience of this?
& what to say when;
- the child asks who 'dad' is?
- when others ask who the childs' 'dad' is?