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How to get relatives car off my property

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Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:07

A relative has left their car in my garage for the last 10 years. I want to sell my house and they won't move it. They could move it to their own property but don't want to. It was always meant to be temporary. I have brought it up several times over the years and they just brush me off with excuses every time. I have ran out of patience. What legal route do I need to take. I don't want to dispose of or sell the car I just want to get it towed to their driveway, but Google seems to suggest I could be prosecuted for criminal damage if I do

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ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:30

SixAndJuliet · Yesterday 22:24

I know! But the OP said upthread that she is worried about theft, criminal damage, getting a criminal record. All of which is absurd and why I suggested speaking to police.

She is not leaving it on a road, she’s said multiple times she will be taking it to their property which has off road space.

Ah - agree the police could give the necessary assurances in that case. But if op has it towed, regardless of where she leaves the car, she’s still moving it without the owners’ permission, and legally that’s complicated. She’s leaving herself open to civil action from a relative she’s already said would take action against her. Not to mention leaving herself liable for any damage incurred in moving it. That’s why I suggested the letter before action - it makes it clear that permission to leave the car on OP’s land has been withdrawn, so it’s now trespass, and it sets out clearly what OP’s expectations are, and what action will be taken if they’re not met.

AlphaApple · Yesterday 22:31

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:10

We seem to be going over old ground. Unless the relative is willing to tax and insure the vehicle, it can’t be left on a public road. I doubt they would be willing to tax it given how long OP has been trying to get them to move it.

Moving or tampering with a vehicle that is not yours without the owner's permission can result in civil complications - given that OP has said her relative would be likely to try legal action whatever she does, this would be a gift. And you cannot legally scrap or otherwise dispose of a car that doesn't belong to you. In addition if OP moved a sorned vehicle from her own property onto a public road she could face action from the local authority for abandoning a vehicle.

This is all much more trouble than it’s worth, and given that OP is trying to sell a house in the midst of all of this, she needs to keep it legal.

And I haven’t said in any of my posts that OP has initiated any legal process.

Specifically, what civil complications?

It’s the owners responsibility to tax and insure the car. If they are given notice that OP will move it to the road, they have time to tax and insure it. It’s not OP’s responsibility to do this and she is not the owner so can’t be held liable.

no one has explained exactly what civil case the owner could have against the OP for moving the car off her property.

if I turned up at a solicitor’s office and said:

”Hi, I want to sue my sister. I left my car in her garage for 10 years despite being told repeatedly to move it. She gave me two weeks notice that she was moving it to the street outside her house. Then she moved it. The car is fine.”

What advice would my solicitor give me?

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:32

Wreckinball · Yesterday 22:08

This isn’t what you want to hear but put your hand in your pocket and pay for legal advice- it could save you a fortune and bring your wish to sell your house forward. There’s no legal redress if you take “duff” advice on here ( and how do you know who is correct?) but there is if your solicitor cocks it up

I think this is sound advice - caveat that there’s nothing stopping OP from sending a letter before action without a solicitors’ involvement. There are clear instructions and templates online and advice available from CAB. If the relatives don’t respond to it, then absolutely legal advice is the way to go.

PeoplesNet · Yesterday 22:34

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:07

A relative has left their car in my garage for the last 10 years. I want to sell my house and they won't move it. They could move it to their own property but don't want to. It was always meant to be temporary. I have brought it up several times over the years and they just brush me off with excuses every time. I have ran out of patience. What legal route do I need to take. I don't want to dispose of or sell the car I just want to get it towed to their driveway, but Google seems to suggest I could be prosecuted for criminal damage if I do

Pretty sure it legally became your property after week 3, so yeah just have it towed on to a public road and don't tell them. Let the council / police deal with it because I assume it was declared SORN.

Curious if you're even the legal keeper, officially. If there's no paper trail, what possible comeback is there on you when the car is found on the public road?

AgonyAuntsortof · Yesterday 22:34

Without op confirming if this property was inherited, none can advise her property.

i am convinced all this and a few other points I mentioned are at the root of everything . This also explains why op is ‘all over the place’ and can’t seem to grip this problem. Ages are also relevant.

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 22:37

AgonyAuntsortof · Yesterday 22:34

Without op confirming if this property was inherited, none can advise her property.

i am convinced all this and a few other points I mentioned are at the root of everything . This also explains why op is ‘all over the place’ and can’t seem to grip this problem. Ages are also relevant.

If you can explain what difference it would make to how the house came into my possession or the car into their possession or how old the relative is or what relation they are to me, then I might answer the questions.
I haven't answered the make and model of the car either because I don't want the thread derailed.
I don't think I'm particularly all over the place personally

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saraclara · Yesterday 22:37

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 22:12

I will be, I just wanted to know what process I was likely to be facing and what sort of options there were, how quickly it's likely to be resolved

It's clear that I might as well talk to the wall because you're totally ignoring my posts. But for the third time, get your home insurance policy out, call the free legal helpline and TALK TO SOMEONE LEGALLY QUALIFIED.

UnZenXennial · Yesterday 22:41
  1. I would arrange to have it towed. The towing company will be insured, so if the vehicle is damaged while being towed, any costs will be covered by their insurance. Take lots of photos/videos to show clearly the condition of the car before and after.
  2. If your relative doesn't have an accessible garage the car can be towed to, buy a cheap car cover, so it won't be "open to the elements". Have it towed to their driveway, pop the cover on. Chances are they'll stick it in their own garage anyway, but you will have done your best to allay their concerns.
  3. Put your house on the market.
YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · Yesterday 22:41

As has been mentioned you can insure a vehicle stored elsewhere. But I wonder what address the insurers have. If the garage burnt down would your insurers be happy about long term storage of a vehicle and possible liability. I would ask your insurers if they have an issue with it, which might impact the owner's coverage. I'd get legal advice and speak to insurers too.

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:41

AlphaApple · Yesterday 22:31

Specifically, what civil complications?

It’s the owners responsibility to tax and insure the car. If they are given notice that OP will move it to the road, they have time to tax and insure it. It’s not OP’s responsibility to do this and she is not the owner so can’t be held liable.

no one has explained exactly what civil case the owner could have against the OP for moving the car off her property.

if I turned up at a solicitor’s office and said:

”Hi, I want to sue my sister. I left my car in her garage for 10 years despite being told repeatedly to move it. She gave me two weeks notice that she was moving it to the street outside her house. Then she moved it. The car is fine.”

What advice would my solicitor give me?

I did say that OP wouldn’t be responsible for the fines regarding lack of tax and insurance - that’s down to the registered keeper. But since she’s the one removing the vehicle from her property to a public road, she would be open to any civil action from the local authority if they view it as abandonment - which technically, it is.

OP gave her permission originally for the relative to store the vehicle on her land. She needs to formally remove that consent before she does anything. If she then removes the vehicle under her own steam the relative can sue OP for tampering with the vehicle without permission. OP says she wants to do things legally. So there is a process, which, if followed, will ultimately result in the removal of the vehicle with no comeback on OP.

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:43

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · Yesterday 22:41

As has been mentioned you can insure a vehicle stored elsewhere. But I wonder what address the insurers have. If the garage burnt down would your insurers be happy about long term storage of a vehicle and possible liability. I would ask your insurers if they have an issue with it, which might impact the owner's coverage. I'd get legal advice and speak to insurers too.

This.

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 22:43

saraclara · Yesterday 22:37

It's clear that I might as well talk to the wall because you're totally ignoring my posts. But for the third time, get your home insurance policy out, call the free legal helpline and TALK TO SOMEONE LEGALLY QUALIFIED.

There have been a lot of posts, I have tried answering most, what do you think I've ignored? If you think I've ignored the 'get legal advice' I've already said I will. It doesn't mean I can't also ask for people's opinions on here before I do

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ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:44

UnZenXennial · Yesterday 22:41

  1. I would arrange to have it towed. The towing company will be insured, so if the vehicle is damaged while being towed, any costs will be covered by their insurance. Take lots of photos/videos to show clearly the condition of the car before and after.
  2. If your relative doesn't have an accessible garage the car can be towed to, buy a cheap car cover, so it won't be "open to the elements". Have it towed to their driveway, pop the cover on. Chances are they'll stick it in their own garage anyway, but you will have done your best to allay their concerns.
  3. Put your house on the market.

And 4. Get ready for your litigious relative to slap you with a civil suit for tampering with the vehicle without their permission.

Howtorespond · Yesterday 22:47

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:46

They don't take the car on the road, it's currently sorn but insured.
Quite frankly I think they just expect me not to put the house on the market whilst it's housing their car. I wish I was joking

This is enraging… I’ve had a bad day to be fair, but people can be so outrageously entitled. I’d be tempted to dump it somewhere and tell the relative it’s been nicked. Only slightly joking

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:49

AlphaApple · Yesterday 22:31

Specifically, what civil complications?

It’s the owners responsibility to tax and insure the car. If they are given notice that OP will move it to the road, they have time to tax and insure it. It’s not OP’s responsibility to do this and she is not the owner so can’t be held liable.

no one has explained exactly what civil case the owner could have against the OP for moving the car off her property.

if I turned up at a solicitor’s office and said:

”Hi, I want to sue my sister. I left my car in her garage for 10 years despite being told repeatedly to move it. She gave me two weeks notice that she was moving it to the street outside her house. Then she moved it. The car is fine.”

What advice would my solicitor give me?

Given that solicitors are never ones to pass up business, I would imagine they would tell you your sister tampered with the vehicle without your permission, and offer to represent you !!

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 22:51

Howtorespond · Yesterday 22:47

This is enraging… I’ve had a bad day to be fair, but people can be so outrageously entitled. I’d be tempted to dump it somewhere and tell the relative it’s been nicked. Only slightly joking

Thank you, no good deed and all that...

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AlphaApple · Yesterday 22:52

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 22:49

Given that solicitors are never ones to pass up business, I would imagine they would tell you your sister tampered with the vehicle without your permission, and offer to represent you !!

What could they actually claim though? What financial loss? What emotional distress?

OneNewEagle · Yesterday 22:59

Did you inherit your house and the car was stored there prior to that? That’s the only reason I can think of for relative to not move it. If it was there before you owning the house I’m really not sure what you can do.

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 23:01

AlphaApple · Yesterday 22:52

What could they actually claim though? What financial loss? What emotional distress?

If OP were simply to dump the car on the road and the relative was fined as a result, I would imagine they would try to recover those costs - they can be hefty.

independentfriend · Yesterday 23:03

Maybe offer to buy the car from the relative? They get a chunk of money, you get to deal with the car as suits your house move.

I would look for solicitors who specialise in conveyancing and in private client / property law. Check how long the house selling process is taking locally - AFAICT it's much slower than it was historically so you may be able to deal with the house sale and the car at the same time.

99bottlesofkombucha · Yesterday 23:04

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 18:49

Those that are saying to include it with the house sale. I don't think that's legal. I just want the legal solutions. Torts doesn't quite fit the bill as it it disposal or selling only. If I ask a solicitor to write a letter to give them 28days notice to move their car or it will be towed to their address, would I be legally protected if the car got a scratch or whatever, would I be held responsible?

Why don’t you make it you’ll dispose of it then if that’s the clear legal route? Wouldn’t bother me, say I’ve contacted several collectors and explained the circumstances, will be pursuing interest.

Keepingthingsinteresting · Yesterday 23:07

AgonyAuntsortof · Yesterday 20:34

You asked: Why would the courts not order for the car to be removed from the property?

Instead, tell us why the court should order the car to be removed from property and why, in your view, no other non-court alternative is suitable.

For some reason, reasons only known to yourself, , you are struggling to see the full picture. I hope your appointment with your Solicitors is tomorrow. Good luck with it.

What are you on about? No court is going to order someone to keep indefinitely storing someone else’s property for them, they just won’t. You are reading in some sort of weirdness to get to a position where the op is legally bound to deliver free storage, but seems incredibly unlikely, based on god knows what inferences.

Can you give any examples of case law underpinning this view?

saraclara · Yesterday 23:11

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 22:43

There have been a lot of posts, I have tried answering most, what do you think I've ignored? If you think I've ignored the 'get legal advice' I've already said I will. It doesn't mean I can't also ask for people's opinions on here before I do

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But here lots of people are giving you terrible advice. Surely you're looking for accurate advice, which you could have got free of charge, by making a phone call?

The worst thing about my legal nightmare was getting conflicting and inaccurate advice, just as you are. I nearly cried when I called my helpline, and within a couple of minutes, a wonderful young woman solicitor spelled out clearly that I wasn't going mad, and then gave me clear, authoritative and empathetic legal advice. It was such a relief.

For the record, I found that I had access to that helpline at 10:30 pm, and called it five minutes later. That was the first full night's sleep I had in months.

That's why I plug away about this. Because it's just SO valuable, and hardly anyone knows they have it.

elfendom1 · Yesterday 23:24

you are the author of your own misery with your hesitancy. Just get the thing towed to their house and deal with whatever afterwards. Trying to work this pedantically by the book is what is stressing you now. A lot of people would tow and dump it anywhere (just say it was stolen) after 10 years, you can bring it to their property if you feel charitable.

DreamyKoala · Yesterday 23:47

I would put the house on the market and ask your conveyancing solicitor for advice on this issue..the relatives seem to know you are waiting on them before you proceed so maybe they don’t think you are serious about selling. If you start the process of the house being advertised they may come to realise they need to move it

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