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How to get relatives car off my property

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Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:07

A relative has left their car in my garage for the last 10 years. I want to sell my house and they won't move it. They could move it to their own property but don't want to. It was always meant to be temporary. I have brought it up several times over the years and they just brush me off with excuses every time. I have ran out of patience. What legal route do I need to take. I don't want to dispose of or sell the car I just want to get it towed to their driveway, but Google seems to suggest I could be prosecuted for criminal damage if I do

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YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · Yesterday 16:46

Serve the notice, wait the number of days, have a company come and collect it on a flatbed and leave it at their address, on the street outside. Have the delivery company photograph the condition of it at drop off. Job done! It'll cost you which is annoying, but you need a way out of the stalemate.

I'm sorry you have such awful relatives OP!

Larrythecatforpm · Yesterday 16:47

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:21

It's an expensive classic car, so I don't want any legal come back from scrapping it, or dumping on the street.

And this is why they’re taking the piss. stop being a wet lettuce call a towing company and get it towed to their house this week. It’s quite simple!

backformoreofthesame · Yesterday 16:47

Larrythecatforpm · Yesterday 16:47

And this is why they’re taking the piss. stop being a wet lettuce call a towing company and get it towed to their house this week. It’s quite simple!

That’s illegal and she thinks the relatives are bat shit enough to go legal if she does that

Yetone · Yesterday 16:49

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:46

They don't take the car on the road, it's currently sorn but insured.
Quite frankly I think they just expect me not to put the house on the market whilst it's housing their car. I wish I was joking

I am guessing this is a close relative? You probably should go down a legal route.

WhatAMarvelousTune · Yesterday 16:51

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:41

Problem is , I don't want to dispose or sell the car I just want it towed to their property, for some reason torts notice doesn't cover this 3rd option

Why not?

Because it’s a faff? Yes but less so than what you’re currently putting up with not being able to move house!

Because you’d feel bad? Don’t. They’ve brought this on themselves.

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · Yesterday 16:51

Agree this is wet lettuce territory....
I also bet your relative is male..

Honestly if its an old car slip the lock
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Release the hand brake and just pop it on the road

Message and say its on the road nmfp.

(Not my fucking problem)

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Eddielizzard · Yesterday 16:52

They are being so unreasonable and it makes me really cross that you can be held to ransom in this way. Surely if you say either move it by Friday or it will be towed at your expense, there can be no comeback from them? Yes they may not pay the bill (is that what they're hoping?), but they had notice. It's totally unreasonable to expect you not to sell your house so they continue to get housing for their car! (What car is it? A Jaguar E-type? drool)

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:52

Larrythecatforpm · Yesterday 16:47

And this is why they’re taking the piss. stop being a wet lettuce call a towing company and get it towed to their house this week. It’s quite simple!

I want to know what legal mechanism I can use to protect myself. If I tow the car it opens me up to legal problems

I originally thought I could do this through torts notice but that doesn't seem to cover being able to tow the car back to their property. I certainly don't want to end up with a criminal record if they decide to retaliate. I quite honestly wouldn't put it past them

This is what Google says about torts if wanting to use it to the owners property-

You cannot legally serve a standard Torts notice and privately tow the vehicle to the owner's property yourself. In the UK, forcibly moving a vehicle without the owner's consent or a court order risks allegations of criminal damage or theft. The legal process depends on whether the vehicle is considered abandoned or simply a trespassing nuisance. 1, 2, , 5]

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https://www.creativecarpark.co.uk/how-to-report-and-remove-abandoned-vehicles-from-your-private-car-park/

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WhereYouLeftIt · Yesterday 16:52

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:21

It's an expensive classic car, so I don't want any legal come back from scrapping it, or dumping on the street.

It may have been an expensive classic car ten years ago, but ten years mouldering away in a garage, the engine never turned over, the electrics not checked for mouse nibbling - it's scrap.

I agree with others - put it in writing that they have 28 days to remove the car from your property, or you will scrap it.

"They could move it to their own property but don't want to. It was always meant to be temporary. I have brought it up several times over the years and they just brush me off with excuses every time."
Can I suggest - you weren't firm enough with them all these years? And they knew you wouldn't be, knowing they could brush you off and their car would stay in your garage. So this time - you have to be VERY clear. No polite requests, no 'sorry can you', no ambiguity at all.

For example : 'If the car is still on my property on <date>, NamedScrapyard will be collecting it and I will forward you their invoice, they have quoted me £xxx for their services and I have provisionally booked it's removal.'

And do it.

PS : just googled to see likely charge - first result came up was https://www.sellthecar.co.uk/. You enter the registration number and they will tell you how much they will pay you for the car.

So I now suggest that you send them, in writing:

'If the car is still on my property on <date>, https://www.sellthecar.co.uk/ have offered £xxx and will be collecting it the day after. Whether you pick it up or they do, this car is exiting my garage.'

RandomMess · Yesterday 16:52

The only way is to serve the correct legal notice, if they choose to ignore it then you will have to dispose of it. That is on them.

OutOfApricots · Yesterday 16:53

Victorius19 · Yesterday 16:27

It'll be worthless if it's been sat in your garage for 10 years. The engine will have ceased up and it'll need expensive restoration. That's why they don't want it.

I'd get a solicitors letter done, and say they have 28 days to remove it or it'll be scrapped.

You've not watched Bangers & Cash, have you?

Crazykatie · Yesterday 16:53

Don't waste money on solicitors just tell them shift it within a week if they dont pump up the tyres up and dump it on their drive.
No excuses move it

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:54

WhatAMarvelousTune · Yesterday 16:51

Why not?

Because it’s a faff? Yes but less so than what you’re currently putting up with not being able to move house!

Because you’d feel bad? Don’t. They’ve brought this on themselves.

No I'm past feeling bad. I just want the car off my property and back on their property without facing any legal problems myself

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Maybeitllneverhappen · Yesterday 16:55

Can you just open the garage door and hope it gets stolen? (Tell them it is now open too)

TheSmallAssassin · Yesterday 16:55

WhatAMarvelousTune · Yesterday 16:51

Why not?

Because it’s a faff? Yes but less so than what you’re currently putting up with not being able to move house!

Because you’d feel bad? Don’t. They’ve brought this on themselves.

How can you sell or scrap a car you don't own?

WhatAMarvelousTune · Yesterday 16:56

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:54

No I'm past feeling bad. I just want the car off my property and back on their property without facing any legal problems myself

So why the preference for towing it back, rather than selling/scrapping it after giving them sufficient notice that that’s what you’ll do?

WhatAMarvelousTune · Yesterday 16:57

TheSmallAssassin · Yesterday 16:55

How can you sell or scrap a car you don't own?

The way PPs have said - by giving proper notice, and giving any proceeds of a sale back to the owner. You don’t have to just live with anything someone dumps on your property!

Ethelspagetti · Yesterday 16:57

Larrythecatforpm · Yesterday 16:17

Well it’s abandoned after ten years so scrap it. Ring a company they’ll tow it and scrap it for you.

agreed this is what I did. A scrap dealer towed it for free.

Deafnotdumb · Yesterday 16:57

If you think it's likel to cause trouble, consult a solicitor. They will probably advise the Torts process, sending notice and scrapping the car. If your relative wants to stop that, they can easily collect their property. As long as it's out of your garage, its not your problem.

backformoreofthesame · Yesterday 16:58

Sell to a scrap yard/ it’s as much hassle as organising a tow truck - let them know that’s your intention as you think it worthless

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:58

Yetone · Yesterday 16:49

I am guessing this is a close relative? You probably should go down a legal route.

Yes close relative so trying to deal with this in the least nuclear way possible. I've asked nicely, I've asked firmly. I've told them in needs to be gone within the month. Just get excuses of why they can't move it to their property, or that they're going to sell it (never actually seen any evidence of them trying to sell it) then they avoid the subject at all costs.
My patience has run out and I want to follow a legal route as they can be retaliatory and I want to make sure I'm protected

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CatNoBag · Yesterday 17:01

Avacadosprinkles · Yesterday 16:54

No I'm past feeling bad. I just want the car off my property and back on their property without facing any legal problems myself

What about if you send them an invoice for storage? Nominal fee for the last 10 years, rising to £1000 per day from X July 2026?

TheSmallAssassin · Yesterday 17:02

You need some proper legal advice, @Avacadosprinkles, just contact a solicitor.

TheSmallAssassin · Yesterday 17:04

Oh, I see what you mean @WhatAMarvelousTune

WiddlinDiddlin · Yesterday 17:04

I find it VERY hard to believe that if you:

  • send a letter before action stating how long they have to remove it from your property
  • state clearly your intention to return it to them should they not remove it
  • state that by not contacting you or removing it themselves, they accept that if you move it, it may be damaged

That ANY court would then find you liable for anything, should you be forced to move it and they attempt to claim damage. Courts work on the 'reasonable man' principle, and giving them fair warning and clearly setting out your intentions is pretty bloody reasonable.

That doesn't mean they couldn't try - but they'd have to put in the time, effort and money to do so and almost certainly won't and would struggle to find any legal representation who'd agree to take their case.