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My employer are threatening legal because I'm refusing to work my notice. How screwed am I?

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confusedlady10 · 18/11/2025 23:25

I know I am being a CF but have no choice, so this is NOT about morals and more about where I stand legally.

I've worked for my job for over 8 years (dead end call centre job) but leaving in a week as I got an offer elsewhere. The notice period is 3 months and didn't realise when I told my new employer because I didn't check my contract. Regardless 3 months notice for an entry level poor paid job is excessive, so it wouldn't have made much difference had I been aware as my new employer need me to start ASAP and wouldn't wait 3 months. I took the risk of my employer suing me as they are a multi-billion pound bank that can easily afford to replace me (and are actively hiring now anyway).

I've accrued 100 hours of holiday, and tried to use it up by booking on our work app but every date got declined due to them being short staffed. My manager called me and said they’d try and get around me leaving early by seeing if they can use my holiday or take it out of my final pay. However they said that after speaking to HR if they can’t then I’ll have to work my notice otherwise HR may go down the legal route and refuse to give me my p45 in order to start my new job. I emailed my manager later to tell them I’ve checked ACAS (after having second thoughts) which says they cannot legally use my holiday pay or pay to offset me breaking my contract and would have to sue me instead which I would have to accept them doing as I really need the money.

They haven’t replied so shall see what they say tomorrow (and I still have time to edit my message as it's out of hours and they haven't read it yet). Can HR legally refuse to give me my p45 for this or take my pay from me or refuse to pay me my owed holiday? And if they do take me to court which I cannot afford what is the likely-hood of me messing up my new job and references and do I have any legal help? I’m scared but don’t have a choice as my new job cannot wait 3 months for me to start so have no choice and only got my contract now to give my employer notice.

Many thanks!

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80smonster · 19/11/2025 10:19

user927464 · 19/11/2025 09:12

It costs 25k to take someone to court, what’s your salary? Seems unlikely to me that this would be profitable for them.

It does not cost £25k to take someone to court. It could be much more or it could be considerably less.

This is an approx estimate, of course this depends on complexity, the point is, they aren’t going to waste their time on a call centre employee unless there are some very serious other allegations. What would be the point?

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 19/11/2025 10:22

Imdunfer · 19/11/2025 10:15

I think there might be a reasonable case for "unfair restraint of trade". The 3 month notice period would prevent most call centre workers from moving easily, because with that level of job a decent employer without a massive turnover won't wait 3 months for them to start but will employ someone else instead. If they were threatening me I'd be making noises about counter suing for that (knowing I could never actually do it, of course. )

Well that’s what they rely on isn’t it? Us poorer minions not being able to afford a solicitor whilst they employ them already. It’s stinks really, poor lass just wants to move onwards and upwards.

LemonGelato · 19/11/2025 10:24

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 09:20

My manager told me that HR have threatened legal, but didn't say more than that. I called ACAS this morning who confirmed they cannot legally withhold my p45 or my holiday (so whether they call my bluff and do it anyway and try to see if I complain about my incorrect final pay and try to report them lets see) and would have to prove a loss of earnings and sue me. I am logging into work soon, so will see what my manager comes back with, as I told them I went to ACAS. Terrified though and know it's still risky/CF what I am doing!

Hoenestly I think you ened to stop trusting what your manager is telling you. Manager may be trying to get you to work your notice by telling you fibs that "HR said".

I've never in over 30 years of working in HR known any employer to 'sue' for breach of contract for not working out notice. And that includues for senior posts which are very hard to replace and where notice was 6 months and had contractual restrictive convenants on what work the employee could take within 12 months of leaving.

You already know they canot withhold holiday pay or P45. Unless someone in authoriity (e.g. HR) confirms in writing they are talking legal action all the rest is empty threats. And even if they do, they are probably just doing it to frighten you into staying for your notice.

P45 for new employer isn't an issue anyway, you simply tick a box on the New starter form that you don't have it yet and supply it when you do. The previous emplyers reports your pay & tax details to HRMc in real time and eventually HMRC works out the tax side andnew emplyer taxes you too. It will all be fine.

Re references they must be factual. Assuming your performance in your job is satisfactory all they can say is that you didn't work out your notice/breached you contract at the end.

It happens all the time that people don't see out their full notice. Annoying but not the end of the world.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:31

WhoAteAllTheMincePiez · 19/11/2025 04:18

If you work from home could you work both jobs for a short time?

I know everyone is saying your notice is excessive for the role but you have been there for eight years, is it more about your length of service saying three months or is that a standard clause? It doesn’t change anything but I’m curious for the clarity.

It's my employment length not standard, every year of employment is a certain amount of notice I have to give them added. My hours are fixed during the day (they don't hire for part time) and this new job is on site until I pass probation and then 3 days from home so it would be impossible sadly.

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RLTraitors · 19/11/2025 10:31

Negroany · 19/11/2025 06:50

Working during holidays is one thing.

But most new employers ask you to confirm that you are free to start the new oust, which you're not if you're still employed. Most employers have a contract clause saying you can't have another job while working for them without their agreement.

It's not really the right time for the op to ask for that agreement. And they won't give it. And starting a new job in dishonest circumstances isn't great. And the new employer might withdraw the offer if they find out. Which they will because the dates of employment will be on the reference.

’Free’. Honestly it sounds they own you. They don’t. It’s a minimum wage call centre job. I have no idea what everyone is worrying about.

BeserkingTuesday · 19/11/2025 10:33

Your present company has refused you annual leave. On how many occassions? Have you got proof of this?
You need legal advice but I would suggest that you resign quoting the constant refusal of annual leave. At the same time file a complaint with ACAS & Employment Tribunal. I would suggest that they might be guilty of constructive dismissal.
However your new employer might take a dim(mish) view of a new employee who is litigious.
Last note. Why are you not in a Trade Union. They will know your company; your sector; and your particular rights.

RLTraitors · 19/11/2025 10:34

OP just be calm but assertive. Say I am sorry I made a mistake not understanding the different notice period to the standard on the employment contract. That said I have accepted a new job and will have to leave on the date I have given notice for.

That’s it. Repeat. I am sorry I cannot work past this point. Polite. That’s it. Done.

RLTraitors · 19/11/2025 10:35

And no don’t start filing claims! Just leave without having taken the leave and they legally have to pay it to you.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:36

theansweris42 · 19/11/2025 08:31

Oh OP you've had a long night.

Just confirm all convos with manager in email and then forward to your personal email.

  1. Date you gave notice and date of last working day
  2. Number of accrued untaken annual leave owed to you

Finish on that date and go start your new job. Your current place will pay everything owed to you. It would be illegal not to do so.

There's a lot of opinion on your thread and some erroneous views being presented as fact. I've worked in HR for a long time. You will get a factual reference and you will not be persued over the truncated notice period.

Congratulations on your new role 😁

This is reassuring. I told my manager I cannot work past X date and that after checking with ACAS HR aren't allowed to withhold my p45 or pay. I am waiting for their reply as they read my message. If HR threaten to sue me I'll call their bluff I guess. I am hoping the reference is just factual and simple. It really would be easier for them to just pay me and let me go and hire someone else than go through the effort of suing me. Thank you so much!

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bignosebignose · 19/11/2025 10:37

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:31

It's my employment length not standard, every year of employment is a certain amount of notice I have to give them added. My hours are fixed during the day (they don't hire for part time) and this new job is on site until I pass probation and then 3 days from home so it would be impossible sadly.

This seems unusual. The other way around is legally standard - for each year of employment you get an extra week of protection (up to a limit of about 12 years/weeks) e.g. if you get made redundant after four years you would be due an extra four weeks of redundancy payments on top of your normal notice period. Has someone checked your contract properly? Loyalty/length of service wouldn't usually put extra burdens on the employee.... though I suppose it must be possible.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:40

NotForTheMoneyandNotForTheApplause · 19/11/2025 06:08

Have you actually signed a contract for your new job?
If you're worried about references that suggests not so are you thinking about a hypothetical future start date?

We have agreed to my start date and I have signed the contract. The background check and references are going ahead in the background regardless of me signing the contract.

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Brefugee · 19/11/2025 10:42

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:36

This is reassuring. I told my manager I cannot work past X date and that after checking with ACAS HR aren't allowed to withhold my p45 or pay. I am waiting for their reply as they read my message. If HR threaten to sue me I'll call their bluff I guess. I am hoping the reference is just factual and simple. It really would be easier for them to just pay me and let me go and hire someone else than go through the effort of suing me. Thank you so much!

this is why everyone should a) read their contracts (you have to have a copy, electronic or printed, so when you start a new job make sure you have it) and b) join a union

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:43

cloudchaos · 19/11/2025 06:44

Can you not just contact your new employer and explain that your current employer really needs you for a couple of extra months and ask if they could wait? You might find that they appreciate your commitment to help them and they agree and then everyone is happy?

Tbh no I don't want to, I have burned my bridges and left a sour taste with HR and told my colleagues I'm leaving by X date anyway who were very happy for me in our work chat. So 3 months more of staying would be very awkward between me and my employer and the job is soul destroying so I don't want to stay a day later than I have to. :(

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Katiesaidthat · 19/11/2025 10:50

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/11/2025 08:22

Well, yes, they might have someone like me making the decisions. That's the point.

Some employers place emphasis on trust, integrity and reliability. Others don't.

Tha fact that she has been EIGHT years at this place shows her trustworthiness. As if she weren´t trustworthy or realiable she would have been fired years ago. That´s what I would be looking at.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 10:56

Whaleandsnail6 · 19/11/2025 06:59

You owe them money for a course you completed? What does your contract say about paying back that cost.

In my experience, I had money deducted from a final salary to recoup costs from a welcome bonus. I didn't remain in the job for the full period to prevent paying back this money so it was deducted, so of thats the case for you and the course costs, they may deduct final pay to cover course costs anyway.

The course is a grand. I was hoping to use my holiday accrued for this. My pay comes soon (so they don't have time to take anything out of this months pay which I think they know and aren't happy about) and they are disputing me leaving anyway so I think it won't come out of this months pay and they will keep pushing to use my holiday and reference as leverage and HR mentioned the "legal route" to my manager so I am not sure what this means next. The contract says I have to pay back the course which I knew and was happy with using my holiday (or if push really came to shove then half my pay). They haven't mentioned the course that I owe them yet though!

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Elektra1 · 19/11/2025 10:59

Imdunfer · 19/11/2025 10:15

I think there might be a reasonable case for "unfair restraint of trade". The 3 month notice period would prevent most call centre workers from moving easily, because with that level of job a decent employer without a massive turnover won't wait 3 months for them to start but will employ someone else instead. If they were threatening me I'd be making noises about counter suing for that (knowing I could never actually do it, of course. )

I’m a lawyer and I do a lot of restrictive covenant disputes. A three month notice period is not a restraint of trade. First, because the employee is not prevented from “trading” (working): they are still working during their notice period. Secondly, because a 3 month period for an employer to interview and recruit a replacement (who themself is likely to have to give notice on their current job before starting a new job) is in the legitimate business interests of the employer.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 11:02

Negroany · 19/11/2025 06:59

They do now, they previously agreed it wasn't.

No sorry I've always meant holiday I may have worded it as time in lieu but technically it's my holiday pay and I have accrued 100 hours on my work app not TOIL. Thank you.

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Iocanepowder · 19/11/2025 11:09

I would agree that based on your role, it would cost them more to take you to court than whatever they would get out of you if they won. So chance is small.

I used to work in a call centre and 3 months is ridiculous. They should be well aware of the general high turnover of staff in this particular role and have a robust process in place to manage it without threatening to sue call centre agents.

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 11:10

Keepingthingsinteresting · 19/11/2025 07:37

This is where you are being unreasonable. You are dropping them in the shit by refusing to work your notice period because you didn’t check your contract (who goes to a job interview not having checked their notice period?) and you aren’t willing to use your leave hours to rebalance that.

They probably won’t sue you because it’s not worth the effort, but you are being shitty.

That I fully accept and don't care. I know I am being a CF and putting myself first. I genuinely don't feel guilty but fully admit I am wrong. I can't commit to a 3 month notice in a dead end call centre job even if I was aware so probably would have still done the same. It's more the legal side and I hope they don't bother.

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SockBanana · 19/11/2025 11:14

The accrued holiday and not working your notice are two separate issues. Payment for the course is a third issue - if you're lucky they may have forgotten!

What's the date you have told them is your last working day? And what day did you inform them that you are leaving?

NorfolkandBad · 19/11/2025 11:16

user927464 · 19/11/2025 09:11

They legally have to provide a reference. It may just say X worked here between these dates. Like a factual reference. Some workplaces only provide this anyway.

They do not have to give a reference

Depends on the employment contract which might may a reference will be provided, and which sector.

Financial services are regulated and a reference must be provided.

https://landaulaw.co.uk/references/

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Does your employer have to give you a job reference? What should it say? What if you are FCA approved? Specialist UK employment lawyers. 020 7100 5256

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AlltheHedgehogsontheWall · 19/11/2025 11:30

3 months is unreasonable and I imagine that this would instantly be obvious in a court case. I wouldn't give it any more thought.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 19/11/2025 11:32

MrsEMR · 18/11/2025 23:34

Also it would be illegal for your employer to withhold your P45 or your holiday pay. Also they should not provide a negative reference (they could give a very basic one that just says how long you worked there).
It looks like you have close to 3 weeks holidays accrued. They should count these holidays in your notice period (if they hold you to the 3 months). Could the new place wait 6 weeks for you to start? Try and negotiate a meet in the middle compromise.

Edited
  1. OP’s employer can give a negative reference provided it’s factual - eg OP not complying with contractual notice period

  2. OP’s employer can also decline to give a reference as there is no legal obligation for an employer to provide a reference

confusedlady10 · 19/11/2025 11:33

Candystripes85 · 19/11/2025 08:24

After reading the whole thread I think a few people are being completely over the top.

The OP has said she works for a big high street bank- that’s going to be the likes of HSBC, Barclays, Lloyds etc. The damage to their reputation if they did sue her (they won’t) would out way any money they would get back from the OP. I think as soon as the press found out they were enforcing 3 months leave periods for junior employees, withholding P45 and refusing to pay accrued holiday which the OP is legally entitled to, they would have a absolute field day. They aren’t going to risk that over a junior employee.

I don’t know for sure, but I would be pretty confident if it did end up in court, the judge would rule the 3 months leave period was unreasonable because of the seniority of the OP role. It’s likely she is moving to another junior position, and no business is going to wait for 3 months to hire a junior member of staff.

The only thing I think the OP needs to be careful of is not working 1 months notice. That would be reasonable to expect her to do, but if she is owed holiday normally they would take that off the month so the OP last working day (physically doing her job) would be say in 2 weeks time, the last 2 weeks of the notice would be holiday and then her officially last day working for the company would be in 4 weeks. They can also deduct the cost of the course from her pay which may stretch a couple of pay periods if it’s more than her monthly salary, and this might be the reason why they are pushing back on her leaving because they wouldn’t be able to deduct it after she’s left - the would need to invoice and charge her. Not sure how that would work.

That's why I wanted them to take the course from my holiday owed, and not them taking my holiday as breach of contract. They haven't brought up the course at all however though, but I have planned for that regardless. I am leaving next week whether they like it or not and politely told my manager so. I am praying they don't sue me (1 week notice instead of 3 months which I accept is CF-ish behaviour and know I have left them in the lurch). Thank you.

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