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Trustee has cleared account

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withholdcontact · 02/07/2025 16:24

Hi I was wondering if anyone could help, my ex husband and I are joint trustees on a Halifax save4it account set up for our daughter when she was born in 2008. The account had nearly £10,000 in it. Yesterday by chance we learned that over the space of a year her father has transferred nearly all of the money to himself. Would this be considered fraud? He has not been spending the money on our daughter.

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Horserider5678 · 03/07/2025 20:08

withholdcontact · 03/07/2025 06:09

Thanks to everyone who has commented, this is a truly awful time. Daughter is 16, does anyone know if she would be entitled to legal aid?

When a young person lives with their parents, their financial situation is often assessed alongside their parents' finances. This means the overall household income and assets are taken into account when determining eligibility for legal aid.

Canthelpmyselffromjoiningin · 03/07/2025 20:10

First step, who's name is this account in, if its trustee for, or nominee for "child" then the money in the account is your daughter's and he has stolen it.
Its been a long time since I was a counter cashier, but we were always told to report when parents unashamedly told us they were withdrawing funds for themselves, its theft as the account belongs to the child and its tax fraud as savings accounts for adults were taxed at source back in 2008 and accounts for children were tax free.
I dont think you have any recourse from the bank, but I do think you have recourse to him (I'm a banker not a lawyer).
Does DD speak to him, can anyone let him know that unless he pays it back, he is going to be reported for theft and fraud. Good luck

TonTonMacoute · 03/07/2025 20:11

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 19:16

OP you can double check with Halifax but if the account has the same terms as the Kid’s saver then there is a good chance that it was a trust.
If it was a trust then the ability of a trustee to withdraw the money is subject to their duty as a trustee to use that money for the benefit of the beneficiary.

The ability to withdraw the money governs the relationship between the bank and the trustees. The duties owed by the trustee to the beneficiary is separate from the relationship with the bank.

I’ve attached a screenshot from the Halifax website about the current Kids Saver which refers to that account being a trust.

No, no, opening an account in trust for a child is not the same thing as it being a trust.

A trust has to be set up with a lawyer and registered as a trust. There are strict rules governing trusts as tax liabilities may be involved. This is a kids savings account, it is not a trust.

OP needs to contact Halifax and explain what has happened before anything else!

Appalling as it it what this arsehole has done is not illegal but there may be cause for redress as the money has been withdrawn without the consent of the person in whose name the account is, and the money has not been spent for her benefit.

Adelle79360 · 03/07/2025 20:19

withholdcontact · 03/07/2025 15:03

I have an unsigned copy of the new account form, I'm not sure if the bank has a signed copy? (Would they usually keep a signed copy and give customer the unsigned?) It states 'We agree that either of us may withdraw any or all of the money in the account and give good receipt to the Halifax...'

This doesn’t sound like a trust. Do you have a trust deed?

Or do you just mean it’s an account you both hold for your daughter?

They’re not the same thing and the law will be different for each.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 20:19

Adelle79360 · 03/07/2025 20:19

This doesn’t sound like a trust. Do you have a trust deed?

Or do you just mean it’s an account you both hold for your daughter?

They’re not the same thing and the law will be different for each.

It’s a child’s savings account that an adult/adults can have access to until child turns sixteen.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 20:20

Halifax save4it OP says

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 20:23

TonTonMacoute · 03/07/2025 20:11

No, no, opening an account in trust for a child is not the same thing as it being a trust.

A trust has to be set up with a lawyer and registered as a trust. There are strict rules governing trusts as tax liabilities may be involved. This is a kids savings account, it is not a trust.

OP needs to contact Halifax and explain what has happened before anything else!

Appalling as it it what this arsehole has done is not illegal but there may be cause for redress as the money has been withdrawn without the consent of the person in whose name the account is, and the money has not been spent for her benefit.

Sorry you are wrong. There is a specific exemption for bare trusts created by bank accounts opened for minors.https://www.gov.uk/hmrc-internal-manuals/trust-registration-service-manual/trsm23160

TRSM23160 - Types of trust that need to be registered: contents: excluded express trusts: contents: bank accounts for minors - HMRC internal manual - GOV.UK

https://www.gov.uk/hmrc-internal-manuals/trust-registration-service-manual/trsm23160

whynotwhatknot · 03/07/2025 20:24

legally nothing you can do morally hes a scumbag

does your daughter know

TonTonMacoute · 03/07/2025 20:37

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 20:23

Sorry you are wrong. There is a specific exemption for bare trusts created by bank accounts opened for minors.https://www.gov.uk/hmrc-internal-manuals/trust-registration-service-manual/trsm23160

Edited

Okay.

However, the advice is still sound. Go to Halifax and tell them what's happened.

Failing that the Financial Ombudsman Service will be next port of call, but they won't take it on until you have spoken to the bank first.

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 03/07/2025 20:37

@ChazsBrilliantAttitude OP corrected to say its a savings account not a trust

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 20:49

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 03/07/2025 20:37

@ChazsBrilliantAttitude OP corrected to say its a savings account not a trust

A lot of children’s bank accounts are what is known as a bare trust. So it can be both a savings account and a trust.

See the HMRC link I’ve posted above that there are specific rules about minors’ bank accounts that are bare trusts.

TheRealHousewife · 03/07/2025 20:50

withholdcontact · 02/07/2025 16:24

Hi I was wondering if anyone could help, my ex husband and I are joint trustees on a Halifax save4it account set up for our daughter when she was born in 2008. The account had nearly £10,000 in it. Yesterday by chance we learned that over the space of a year her father has transferred nearly all of the money to himself. Would this be considered fraud? He has not been spending the money on our daughter.

I’m sorry to hear this has happened to your daughter. Unfortunately this is a very common occurrence. My niece had similar happen to her when her parents divorced. Her father (my brother) discovered his ex-wife/her mother had drawn all her savings out of her daughters Halifax trustee account (he said she’d used it to pay for a new bathroom). He was fuming as the money had been accrued over the years from contributions from grandparents/aunties/uncles etc. He contacted Halifax and I do believe the account was reimbursed. I think Banks treat each case independently so it’s worth checking with the bank directly. Some people have no morals!

2021x · 03/07/2025 20:50

Wow… just wow.

I have no advice but hand hold for you and your stress levels at this time. You must be absolutely livid.

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simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:15

Yes I agree with what someone else put. You might not legally have a leg to stand on, but if you explain the situation they may reimburse as a gesture of goodwill. At ten thousand pounds it may just be partial reimbursement on their part of a few hundred but it’s better than nothing.

go up in person and explain, see what they say. You could also try sending an email.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:18

Promo981 · 03/07/2025 17:31

I suggest you contact Halifax and ask if they can give you any advice as to what to do. You could also contact the police as it is theft.

It’s not theft. He had legal access to the account.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 21:44

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:18

It’s not theft. He had legal access to the account.

It still can be theft. Having legal access to the account doesn’t mean the money in the account was his. It’s what he has done with the money afterwards that matters.

I have access to the stationery cupboard in the office. If I take a pen and use it for work that is fine. If I take all the pens and sell them it is theft.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:46

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 21:44

It still can be theft. Having legal access to the account doesn’t mean the money in the account was his. It’s what he has done with the money afterwards that matters.

I have access to the stationery cupboard in the office. If I take a pen and use it for work that is fine. If I take all the pens and sell them it is theft.

With a child’s savings account like the one OP described, each parent is allowed to have unlimited withdrawals and use the money as they see fit. I had the exact same account with Halifax in the early noughties. It’s not like an account where there needs to be hard confirmation that it needs to be spent on something that is of benefit to the child.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:48

Sadly OP should’ve got an IsA rather than a child savings account that is a free for all for any adult who has access to it

Copperoliverbear · 03/07/2025 21:54

Plaster what he’s done all over the internet and write to his work that he’s an embezzler, maybe the police may able to get him on a technicality of embezzlement as the account presumably is a child’s account for your daughter, I’d so to the police station and try anyway.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:57

Copperoliverbear · 03/07/2025 21:54

Plaster what he’s done all over the internet and write to his work that he’s an embezzler, maybe the police may able to get him on a technicality of embezzlement as the account presumably is a child’s account for your daughter, I’d so to the police station and try anyway.

Yes because I’m sure OP wants to get arrested for making false accusations/wasting police time and harassment- and have her daughter end up staying with her awful father to boot.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:58

Copperoliverbear · 03/07/2025 21:54

Plaster what he’s done all over the internet and write to his work that he’s an embezzler, maybe the police may able to get him on a technicality of embezzlement as the account presumably is a child’s account for your daughter, I’d so to the police station and try anyway.

If you RTFT (even just OP’s posts) it’s a child’s account which both parents have access to/ can make unlimited withdrawals from. Both don’t have to sign/ they can withdrawal separately. And there are no rules or regulations legally on what the withdrawn money must be used for.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 22:02

OP I’ve been thinking about this some more. If there had been very few withdrawals on the account and then a sudden pattern of extensive withdrawals over a relatively short period that should have triggered some internal questions. The FCA vulnerable customer guidance can include children in that definition so you potentially had an account for a vulnerable customer subject to an unusual pattern of withdrawals by a single signatory (not the account beneficiary) that substantially depleted the account.

I would be inclined to push Halifax hard on this point if it is the case that there was a sudden and unusual pattern of transactions on an account that had only seen periodic deposits. Make sure you use the phrases vulnerable customer and financial abuse.

If the withdrawals were unusual then I would ask Halifax why they did not challenge a sudden change to the use of a vulnerable customer’s account and given the scale the withdrawals by a single signatory why they didn’t consider financial abuse.

It’s worth a try.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 22:05

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 21:58

If you RTFT (even just OP’s posts) it’s a child’s account which both parents have access to/ can make unlimited withdrawals from. Both don’t have to sign/ they can withdrawal separately. And there are no rules or regulations legally on what the withdrawn money must be used for.

Actually if this was a bare trust which many child accounts are then there are legal rules about what the ex could use the money for.

Whilst I agree that plastering accusations all over the place is a bad idea that doesn’t mean that the ex hasn’t broken the law.

simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 22:09

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 03/07/2025 22:05

Actually if this was a bare trust which many child accounts are then there are legal rules about what the ex could use the money for.

Whilst I agree that plastering accusations all over the place is a bad idea that doesn’t mean that the ex hasn’t broken the law.

Filofax are quite crafty about this by using the word “may” in their description of child savings accounts including this one. Means that they can, but they don’t legally have to ensure the withdrawal/spend is for the child’s benefit when a parent tries to make a withdrawal.

Trustee has cleared account
simsbustinoutmimi · 03/07/2025 22:09

Halifax* bloody typo!