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What next step should I take with my neighbours?

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user1471867483 · 07/01/2025 06:46

My neighbours had exterior wall insulation in October (we were given 12 hours notice and no party wall agreement was put in place - long story). Anyway, now it's January and our scuffed and scratched front doorsteps are still not fixed by them nor is the water seepage that is coming onto our kitchen wall fixed either since they put in a conservatory. A surveyor from my council came round at the very time their works were being carried out and he confirmed the water seepage is coming from them. They have cancelled us three times to fix these issues ("he couldn't get the baby to sleep", "my baby isn't well", "my wife is stuck in traffic") and on the fourth occasion he didn't show up whatsoever. We had plans in place and had to rearrange them and we waited and waited for him.

I have written them a polite, but firm letter yesterday expressing our concerns again about our kitchen wall (as the water is coming near to electric wires beside our boiler) and our damaged front door steps, and asking for an update on any proposed solutions and a timeline for implementation. If they don't answer me, what then? I don't have any finances for legal assistance as I am in receipt of pension credit.
TIA. 😓🤔

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Ilikewinter · 05/06/2025 18:05

@user1471867483 you need to send the chatgpt letter @ItsNotMeEither has posted above!

KarlaKK · 05/06/2025 18:08

You've also got it on record that he's agreed to do it.

MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 18:21

How is the water getting into your kitchen, is it from the outside guttering, drainage or poor construction of the conservatory or an internal leak from their pipework..

MsFogi · 05/06/2025 18:40

Definately write them a letter to tell them they have 21 days to sort out all the issues otherwise you will be raising a formal legal dispute. They will need to declare any dispute which is likely to scupper any sale they line up so they will probably be pretty motivated to sort it out (even though they have been useless to date). Given your age I wouldn't be worried about a dispute for when you or your family come to sell your house in the future - just get it in once the 21 days are past otherwise the issue will never get sorted because your crap neighbours will have moved on and it won't be the new people's problem.

MsFogi · 05/06/2025 18:41

And send a copy of your letter to the estate agent.

Spirallingdownwards · 05/06/2025 18:45

If they have carried out work in breach of their lease with you it is possible you can sue for breach of lease as well as the cost of rectifying any damage to your property. Time to lawyer up I'm afraid. They are fobbing you off and taking the piss.

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 19:01

MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 17:40

They will gave trouble selling with an ongoing issue, the agent and conveyancer need to know they have caused a ongoing water leak, the step I'd just do myself. I'd go through your insurance, who can liaise with their insurers, the leak needs to be found and rectified by a professional.

Thank you 😉. Rang our insurer who said it's nothing to do with them 🤦.

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user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 19:05

ItsNotMeEither · 05/06/2025 17:55

A new letter is required very quickly (or a solicitor). Chat GPT suggested this…

Certainly — here is a more firmly worded and legally styled version of the letter. It reflects the seriousness of the situation, implies that legal advice has been sought, and underscores the potential consequences of non-action, particularly regarding their upcoming property sale.

[Your Full Name]
[Your Address]
[Postcode]
[Email Address or Phone Number (optional)]
[Date]

[Neighbours’ Names]
[Their Address]
[Postcode]

Dear [Neighbours’ Names],

RE: Ongoing Property Damage and Water Ingress Arising from Your Building Works – Final Notice Prior to Legal Escalation

I write once again regarding the unresolved damage to my property resulting from works undertaken at your home in October, namely the installation of exterior wall insulation and the construction of a conservatory. These works were carried out without a Party Wall Agreement and with only 12 hours’ notice, which in itself falls outside the expectations of the Party Wall etc. Act 1996.

Despite repeated assurances and agreed visits — which were subsequently cancelled without notice or explanation — the following issues remain outstanding:

  1. Damage to my front doorsteps, which were scuffed and scratched during the course of your works;
  2. Ongoing water ingress into my kitchen wall, confirmed by a council surveyor during the time of your construction to be directly originating from your property. This ingress remains unresolved and presents a serious safety concern, particularly due to its proximity to electrical wiring and my gas boiler.

I have allowed ample time for you to resolve these matters and have made every effort to resolve the situation amicably. However, the continued delays — most recently justified by poor weather — are no longer reasonable, especially in light of the fact that your property has now been placed on the market.

I have recently taken preliminary legal advice, and I have been advised that failure to rectify the damage caused by your contractors may constitute actionable nuisance and/or negligence under civil law. Furthermore, I am advised that, should these issues remain outstanding at the time of sale, any prospective purchaser or their solicitor may raise enquiries as to the nature of the dispute, which could complicate or delay your transaction.

Therefore, I must now insist that:

  • You provide, in writing, within 7 calendar days of the date of this letter, a detailed and binding schedule for the completion of remedial works;
  • All damage be fully and professionally rectified within 14 calendar days, with prior notice given of the intended works and personnel attending;
  • Any future communication from this point forward be made in writing for the sake of record-keeping.

Should you fail to comply within this timeframe, I will have no choice but to initiate formal action. This may include notifying your estate agent of an unresolved boundary dispute, reporting the issue to the Council’s Environmental Health department, and pursuing a claim through the Small Claims Court for damages and remedial costs. I am advised that these steps are both proportionate and justified in the circumstances.

This letter is written without prejudice to my rights, all of which are expressly reserved.

Yours sincerely,
[Your Full Name]

Oh my gosh. This is brilliant 👏. Thank you!

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MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 19:10

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 19:01

Thank you 😉. Rang our insurer who said it's nothing to do with them 🤦.

I would expect you'd insurers to at least send someone out to assess the damage caused by the leak, how disappointing, have you checked your policy.

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 19:19

MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 18:21

How is the water getting into your kitchen, is it from the outside guttering, drainage or poor construction of the conservatory or an internal leak from their pipework..

This is what the council surveyor said:

"The pattern of the staining was consistent with penetrating damp from the exterior masonry wall.
On inspecting the exterior wall it was apparent that the detailing around the render and brickwork between (our door number) and the neighbouring property is likely to have caused the ingress".

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Agapornis · 05/06/2025 22:10

Does your home insurance include legal assistance/costs?

user1471867483 · 06/06/2025 08:13

Agapornis · 05/06/2025 22:10

Does your home insurance include legal assistance/costs?

I'll look into it. Thank you. The surveyor from the council ended his report with "the likely source of this being from the neighbouring property".

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Agapornis · 06/06/2025 10:23

Yeah I'd get back to the insurer. Very odd that they said it's nothing to do with them - read your policy and check whether that's even true.

MissMoneyFairy · 06/06/2025 11:02

Agapornis · 06/06/2025 10:23

Yeah I'd get back to the insurer. Very odd that they said it's nothing to do with them - read your policy and check whether that's even true.

They won't fix the leak but they might redecorate, if it's water getting in through the render and around decor or pointing then a builder could sort that out

Soontobe60 · 06/06/2025 11:12

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 19:19

This is what the council surveyor said:

"The pattern of the staining was consistent with penetrating damp from the exterior masonry wall.
On inspecting the exterior wall it was apparent that the detailing around the render and brickwork between (our door number) and the neighbouring property is likely to have caused the ingress".

That doesn’t imply that it’s the neighbours house that’s caused the problem.

Soontobe60 · 06/06/2025 11:13

I don’t understand how you have managed to get the Council to come and do a report on a property you own? What’s it got to do with them?

MissMoneyFairy · 06/06/2025 13:10

Soontobe60 · 06/06/2025 11:12

That doesn’t imply that it’s the neighbours house that’s caused the problem.

That's true, have you got photos, could if be rain getting through damaged render or pointing and brickwork, is it something a damp specialist can come and assess for you, not sure the neighbour could just fix it, it's difficult to envisage without a photo, is the on the outside wall of your kitchen, is there a gap between your houses.

user1471867483 · 08/06/2025 16:15

Thank you for all your help/advice. I forgot to say they (the leaseholder) built a conservatory two years ago without our (freeholder) permission.

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tammienorrie · 09/06/2025 08:30

You have tried to manage this yourself by speaking to your neighbour and writing letters. This approach has had no effect.

You need a proper solicitor's letter, not an AI-generated one. What did you do when they built a conservatory?

user1471867483 · 09/06/2025 08:36

tammienorrie · 09/06/2025 08:30

You have tried to manage this yourself by speaking to your neighbour and writing letters. This approach has had no effect.

You need a proper solicitor's letter, not an AI-generated one. What did you do when they built a conservatory?

Absolutely nothing. I didn't even think it was wrong until I looked it up yesterday! It said leaseholders can't build anything with written consent from the freeholder. What I have done however is I've contacted our council's planning enforcement dept and emailed them yesterday.

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user1471867483 · 09/06/2025 08:43

Sorry, should've said 'without' written consent.

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user1471867483 · 14/12/2025 10:53

KarlaKK · 05/06/2025 18:00

The estate agent will not be happy as they'll want their money. It's one thing them working out there is a problem with something but keeping quiet about it but another thing to have been explicitly told by you. They can't be caught out in a lie so will want the current owners to fix things.

Well, the latest: They have sale agreed on their estate agent board. However, back in June, I texted him asking when he's going to fix the damage. He never answered! Now, suddenly, he's texted out of the blue, now they're sale agreed, asking me if there's anything I need repairing and to go over a few thing their solicitor has asked them! Why now when I've waited and waited 6 months to repair the damage?

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CosyBungalow · 14/12/2025 14:45

They've obviously now realized, or been advised by a solicitor that an ongoing dispute with neighbour's could hold up their sale.... make sure you get them to pay for or fix everything you need them to do. Be interesting to see what happens re the conservatory and not having your permission

user1471867483 · 14/12/2025 16:03

CosyBungalow · 14/12/2025 14:45

They've obviously now realized, or been advised by a solicitor that an ongoing dispute with neighbour's could hold up their sale.... make sure you get them to pay for or fix everything you need them to do. Be interesting to see what happens re the conservatory and not having your permission

I'm not going to answer him. I'm not pandering to him. I've waited a whole year for him to fix the damp and when I see him outside he completely blanks me - lovely eh? Lovely neighbour! He'll have to stew. When I texted him in June asking a time/date for the repair, he didn't answer and I've been waiting ever since! Now suddenly he's in touch!

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RareRubyRobin · 14/12/2025 16:53

I wouldn’t ignore him too long despite how frustrating and non communicative he has been. At the end of the day you need it to be sorted and want them to fix what they should quite rightly be fixing, however, I wouldn’t entrust him to fix this. What qualifications does he have? What recourse will you have if he mucks up your house or makes the problem even worse, especially once they have moved out? I would be employing my own professional to fix the problem and tell him I’ll be sending him the bill.