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What next step should I take with my neighbours?

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user1471867483 · 07/01/2025 06:46

My neighbours had exterior wall insulation in October (we were given 12 hours notice and no party wall agreement was put in place - long story). Anyway, now it's January and our scuffed and scratched front doorsteps are still not fixed by them nor is the water seepage that is coming onto our kitchen wall fixed either since they put in a conservatory. A surveyor from my council came round at the very time their works were being carried out and he confirmed the water seepage is coming from them. They have cancelled us three times to fix these issues ("he couldn't get the baby to sleep", "my baby isn't well", "my wife is stuck in traffic") and on the fourth occasion he didn't show up whatsoever. We had plans in place and had to rearrange them and we waited and waited for him.

I have written them a polite, but firm letter yesterday expressing our concerns again about our kitchen wall (as the water is coming near to electric wires beside our boiler) and our damaged front door steps, and asking for an update on any proposed solutions and a timeline for implementation. If they don't answer me, what then? I don't have any finances for legal assistance as I am in receipt of pension credit.
TIA. 😓🤔

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PsychoHotSauce · 09/01/2025 06:56

If you're in receipt of pension credit you may well qualify for legal aid, so check that as well as insurance.

But for godsake you need to be a bit more dogged and proactive. They're taking the absolute piss and hoping you haven't got the grit to pursue this, and you're fannying about with tentative letters asking if they can please sort it out. Neighbour disputes should always be resolved amicably but unfortunately people like this just do what they want and then play chicken with the consequences.

user1471867483 · 09/01/2025 07:03

PsychoHotSauce · 09/01/2025 06:56

If you're in receipt of pension credit you may well qualify for legal aid, so check that as well as insurance.

But for godsake you need to be a bit more dogged and proactive. They're taking the absolute piss and hoping you haven't got the grit to pursue this, and you're fannying about with tentative letters asking if they can please sort it out. Neighbour disputes should always be resolved amicably but unfortunately people like this just do what they want and then play chicken with the consequences.

I totally totally agree. Just I like to keep the peace and hate falling out with anyone as it's so stressful, especially living so close to neighbours as mum and I do. I'm not letting this go now though. They think they're winning, but we'll have the last laugh yet! I'll keep you updated xx 😘

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SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 09/01/2025 07:35

user1471867483 · 09/01/2025 06:49

Yes, very true. I'll leave that as a last resort and will try the first two steps first then see. So nice of you to help me xx P.S. They still haven't answered my letter I put in their door Monday evening......smh.

That’s not a good sign is it. It would be good to sort this amicably but that may not be possible.

user1471867483 · 09/01/2025 07:38

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 09/01/2025 07:35

That’s not a good sign is it. It would be good to sort this amicably but that may not be possible.

They obvs don't want to converse. Last time I spoke to the guy next door I told him it's good and healthy to communicate and let's keep the communication open, but he doesn't agree obvs, hence I had to put my grievances in writing also.

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SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 09/01/2025 07:42

user1471867483 · 09/01/2025 07:38

They obvs don't want to converse. Last time I spoke to the guy next door I told him it's good and healthy to communicate and let's keep the communication open, but he doesn't agree obvs, hence I had to put my grievances in writing also.

You may have done all you can now without outside help. If you can afford to fix the problem yourself it might be a better way to go. Horrible situation to be in.

user1471867483 · 09/01/2025 07:54

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 09/01/2025 07:42

You may have done all you can now without outside help. If you can afford to fix the problem yourself it might be a better way to go. Horrible situation to be in.

I know. They've completely taken over the place. My mum's been in that house since 1965 and they since just 2017. That's life sadly. Hope me and mama can over away one day soon.
Thank you for showing interest in my 'case'!

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aloopylou · 10/01/2025 21:45

First off, read your title register and deeds. You can read theirs too! You can obtain from Land Registry online. It will stipulate permissions, rights, reservations etc. The horse has bolted and now you are chasing it and wasting precious time in the process! As freeholder you have rights but also responsibilities. Do your research and opt for legal assistance. The more you dilly dally, the more damage will be caused and ultimately values will drop. Your neighbours will see you as a toothless tiger. What will be next?? If you are the freeholder, put your foot down and act, sharpish!

CheekyRaven · 10/01/2025 21:46

Threaten to put their ground rent up to an extortionate amount....

Mum2three63 · 10/01/2025 21:51

user1471867483 · 08/01/2025 08:16

None. He was assessing the damp but the damp doesn't come under my grant. My council pays for things like broken toilets, taps, leaking rooves, but not the damp from next door; that's why I wondered if I should contact him to ask if he can write a report saying such even if I have to pay.

Why does your council pay for some work?

Ee872100 · 10/01/2025 22:25

Your being too soft!

Contact your insurance and discuss the issue with them. Their legal team will deal with your issues. Contact the surveyor and provide the document to your insurance company. Don't give it to the neighbors, they don't care. The insurance do care because they want the neighbors insurance to pay out, not them.

Speak to citizens advice or age uk regarding any free or discounted legal advice that may be available to you. You need a solicitor to formal give notice to your neighbor that they are leaseholders and as such need your permission prior to work being carried out. Have them state all the works to date that were done without your permission and the impact to you and your property. State any future works need to follow due process or legal action will follow.

This is the only way to reign your neighbors in. They see you as a soft touch and will keep ignoring you, your letters and keep doing illegal work on their house. Which will impact your property and cost you money.

If you don't want the hassle/stress of the above, then your only other option is to sell up. The situation will never change if you do nothing.

user1471867483 · 13/01/2025 06:48

Thank you so much everyone thus far. I truly really do appreciate it more than you realise xx

Just an update:

They replied to my letter. They said:

"They're sorry for the stress caused by the two unresolved issues. He said he's happy to paint our doorstep once the finer weather comes and the kitchen leak he said is not a simple one and will require clear weather and will require access to our garden (it's like he's doing us a favour here!!! It's their damage, not ours) . He also said he didn't intend to keep us deliberately waiting and if we're happy he can gain access to our garden without our daily plans being disrupted and will ring our doorbell to ensure we're happy and are at home to lift the fence panel.
Finally he said it's difficult for him to be able to confidently say when he can do things as him and his wife work full time and he looks after their toddler and work around him.

(Well, we're all busy!!!!)

Just wondered your thoughts? 😕

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Agapornis · 13/01/2025 09:21

Err why is it him doing things, rather than a professional? Especially the leak. You need to agree a deadline e.g. within 1-2 months for the leak.

NewYorkherewecome · 13/01/2025 18:38

Tell him you just want the repairs to be done as quickly as possible and by a competent workman. I would give him a fixed deadline of 14/21 days or you’ll escalate.

user1471867483 · 27/01/2025 15:32

Just to update you. I tried to ring the insurance company, but their automated message said they don't give advice 🤷. We don't want to put in a claim as it puts the premium up. I don't know what to do next.

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MaggieFS · 27/01/2025 21:38

Which insurance? Do you specifically have legal advice? It's normally a separate phone number.

Personally I think that answer is entirely unsatisfactory. I would be telling them that as they have failed to engage a competent tradesperson and the risk of further damage is intolerable, you will obtain two quotes and send them the bill once the work is complete. If they don't pay, then as pp said, if you're the freeholder, presumably you set the ground rent? Recoup it that way.

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 09:56

Good morning people. My neighbours have put their house up for sale and we haven't had any contact made by them regarding the damp seepage from their property onto our kitchen wall still. It's like they've conveniently 'forgotten'. I am going to take a picture of the damp wall and text the picture to him asking him (the neighbour) to not forget to repair it before they move. How can I word it professionally please? I want it to sound professionally but not too soft with them. TIA. 🙏

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KarlaKK · 05/06/2025 10:02

I'd tell them straight you'll be telling the estate agent there is an unresolved issue and also you'll be camping out to catch every viewer coming to tell them the same; so, he won't be able to sell until he sorts out the problems.

Bettyfromlondon · 05/06/2025 13:41

They are selling! Great!
Suggest you get straight on to the estate agent and tell them there is an unresolved neighbour dispute.

user1471867483 · 05/06/2025 17:32

Bettyfromlondon · 05/06/2025 13:41

They are selling! Great!
Suggest you get straight on to the estate agent and tell them there is an unresolved neighbour dispute.

Thank you guys! I texted a few hours ago politely asking him for an update with our kitchen wall repair. Nothing back yet. Eight months on and we're still waiting for the repair! I painted the doorsteps they scratched and scuffed myself but they didn't offer to pay for the paint! 😥 I have a feeling I won't bear back, as they're obviously going now 🤷. Not sure the estate agent can do anything?

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MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 17:40

They will gave trouble selling with an ongoing issue, the agent and conveyancer need to know they have caused a ongoing water leak, the step I'd just do myself. I'd go through your insurance, who can liaise with their insurers, the leak needs to be found and rectified by a professional.

Bettyfromlondon · 05/06/2025 17:50

It will definitely impede their sale of there is an outstanding neighbour dispute!!
The estate agent will certainly be interested.

And don't settle for a DIY bodge job either.
You have the cards here.

ItsNotMeEither · 05/06/2025 17:55

A new letter is required very quickly (or a solicitor). Chat GPT suggested this…

Certainly — here is a more firmly worded and legally styled version of the letter. It reflects the seriousness of the situation, implies that legal advice has been sought, and underscores the potential consequences of non-action, particularly regarding their upcoming property sale.

[Your Full Name]
[Your Address]
[Postcode]
[Email Address or Phone Number (optional)]
[Date]

[Neighbours’ Names]
[Their Address]
[Postcode]

Dear [Neighbours’ Names],

RE: Ongoing Property Damage and Water Ingress Arising from Your Building Works – Final Notice Prior to Legal Escalation

I write once again regarding the unresolved damage to my property resulting from works undertaken at your home in October, namely the installation of exterior wall insulation and the construction of a conservatory. These works were carried out without a Party Wall Agreement and with only 12 hours’ notice, which in itself falls outside the expectations of the Party Wall etc. Act 1996.

Despite repeated assurances and agreed visits — which were subsequently cancelled without notice or explanation — the following issues remain outstanding:

  1. Damage to my front doorsteps, which were scuffed and scratched during the course of your works;
  2. Ongoing water ingress into my kitchen wall, confirmed by a council surveyor during the time of your construction to be directly originating from your property. This ingress remains unresolved and presents a serious safety concern, particularly due to its proximity to electrical wiring and my gas boiler.

I have allowed ample time for you to resolve these matters and have made every effort to resolve the situation amicably. However, the continued delays — most recently justified by poor weather — are no longer reasonable, especially in light of the fact that your property has now been placed on the market.

I have recently taken preliminary legal advice, and I have been advised that failure to rectify the damage caused by your contractors may constitute actionable nuisance and/or negligence under civil law. Furthermore, I am advised that, should these issues remain outstanding at the time of sale, any prospective purchaser or their solicitor may raise enquiries as to the nature of the dispute, which could complicate or delay your transaction.

Therefore, I must now insist that:

  • You provide, in writing, within 7 calendar days of the date of this letter, a detailed and binding schedule for the completion of remedial works;
  • All damage be fully and professionally rectified within 14 calendar days, with prior notice given of the intended works and personnel attending;
  • Any future communication from this point forward be made in writing for the sake of record-keeping.

Should you fail to comply within this timeframe, I will have no choice but to initiate formal action. This may include notifying your estate agent of an unresolved boundary dispute, reporting the issue to the Council’s Environmental Health department, and pursuing a claim through the Small Claims Court for damages and remedial costs. I am advised that these steps are both proportionate and justified in the circumstances.

This letter is written without prejudice to my rights, all of which are expressly reserved.

Yours sincerely,
[Your Full Name]

KarlaKK · 05/06/2025 17:57

Tell the estate agent you got the surveyor in from the council so the council is aware and therefore it is an officially logged dispute and hopefully they're not lying about it on the forms (TA6 or TA10, can't remember which). Hopefully, the estate agent will put some pressure on them to sort it out. If the neighbours get shirty with you say it has been ongoing for 8 months and they've done nothing so now they're moving you want it sorted - if they don't you'll let the new people know and they can chase you for the money to sort it out. One way or another they'll be paying. I'd be looking out for viewers and calling over to the estate agent "can you please get the owners to sort out the damp/leak"; that'll put people off so best they sort it.

MissMoneyFairy · 05/06/2025 17:59

If they or their contractor caused the water leak then surely it's their insurers who cover the cost of repairs, it wouldn't put your premium up.

KarlaKK · 05/06/2025 18:00

The estate agent will not be happy as they'll want their money. It's one thing them working out there is a problem with something but keeping quiet about it but another thing to have been explicitly told by you. They can't be caught out in a lie so will want the current owners to fix things.