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Has my mother grounds to sue primark?

161 replies

Wanttobehappy123 · 03/10/2022 18:20

My elderly mother went upstairs in penny’s (primark ireland) to purchase a hot water bottle. She paid for it upstairs refusing a bag and paying cash. She didn’t take the receipt from the assistant.
She went down the escalators(still in the shop) and was approached by a member of staff asking to see the receipt for her purchase. She told the lady the sales person had put it in the bin and was then sent back upstairs to the sales person to retrieve the receipt from the bin. This was all in ear shot of other customers and she was mortified and upset after the incident. I am very angry she was treated this way. Would anyone know has she grounds for legal action?

OP posts:
tiddlywinks2 · 03/10/2022 18:31

Surely you're joking 😂

PurpleWisteria1 · 03/10/2022 18:31

I would write a letter / email to primark head office to let them know about the incident as your elderly mother is vulnerable. Sounds like they should have handled it better.
But sue? Erm I think you’ve been watching too much trashy American tv possibly? Are you trying to get on judge Judy?

Soubriquet · 03/10/2022 18:32

Not a chance. Security were doing their job. How are they supposed to know your mother had already purchased it?

TwoWrightFeet · 03/10/2022 18:32

What are you looking to achieve by legal action?

Raddix · 03/10/2022 18:32

You don’t get compensation for embarrassment or hurt feelings. She would have to demonstrate a financial loss, which she clearly cannot.

Pixiedust1234 · 03/10/2022 18:32

This is the main reason for a receipt. Proof of purchase 🙄

What did she (and you) think a receipt is for?

TabithaTittlemouse · 03/10/2022 18:32

She needs to write to the daily mail. They would love this.

TabithaTittlemouse · 03/10/2022 18:33

PurpleWisteria1 · 03/10/2022 18:31

I would write a letter / email to primark head office to let them know about the incident as your elderly mother is vulnerable. Sounds like they should have handled it better.
But sue? Erm I think you’ve been watching too much trashy American tv possibly? Are you trying to get on judge Judy?

Being elderly doesn’t suddenly make you not a thief or incapable of getting a receipt.

Blowyourowntrumpet · 03/10/2022 18:34

Sue them for what? Don't be ridiculous

woodhill · 03/10/2022 18:35

Tbh she was foolish not to collect her receipt or bag her item

Why make things difficult for everyone

StupidSmallFruit · 03/10/2022 18:40

SirCharlesRainier · 03/10/2022 18:29

Sorry you're having a hard time OP. I agree she was treated very badly but sadly people are probably right that there was no injury done that's due compensation.

I'm amazed at these people who think security were behaving correctly or "just doing their job". Last I heard, if someone wants to accuse me of theft then the onus is on them to prove it, not me to prove my innocence. There's absolutely no obligation for me to carry receipts or bags around with me or carry out errands to track down what's gone in various bins. Weird.

It’s a shop. Not a court of law.

She wasn’t being asked to ‘prove her innocence’. And she wasn’t being ‘accused of theft’.

She was asked for proof of purchase. Which the shop is absolutely entitled to do.

PeekAtYou · 03/10/2022 18:40

I had the same happen to me in Morrisons (I left the receipt at the self checkout) so I always make sure I get the receipt. It is embarrassing but it's their job to ask and I pay for my shopping so 🤷‍♀️

Georgeskitchen · 03/10/2022 18:42

Just remind your mum to always get a receipt then move on. People might be on your side if the guards had wrestled her to the ground but asking her to produce a receipt? Nah, I don't think so

Wanttobehappy123 · 03/10/2022 18:43

i was of the understanding that a member of staff is not permitted to approach a customer looking for a receipt while they are still in the shop and still have the opportunity to pay if they have not all ready done so. When they leave the shop with the item they can then approach a person looking to see the receipt. I have no legal experience what so ever but I always believed this to be the case

OP posts:
Hearthnhome · 03/10/2022 18:43

What grounds do you think there may be?

Hedonism · 03/10/2022 18:44

🤣

roarfeckingroarr · 03/10/2022 18:44

Absolutely not. Compensation for what exactly ?

vodkaredbullgirl · 03/10/2022 18:45

Thought you were going say she fell down the escalator.

PCPrincipless · 03/10/2022 18:45

Hahahaha.

HermioneWeasley · 03/10/2022 18:47

You sue for damages. What injury has she suffered as a result of being asked to show a receipt?

LIZS · 03/10/2022 18:48

Wanttobehappy123 · 03/10/2022 18:43

i was of the understanding that a member of staff is not permitted to approach a customer looking for a receipt while they are still in the shop and still have the opportunity to pay if they have not all ready done so. When they leave the shop with the item they can then approach a person looking to see the receipt. I have no legal experience what so ever but I always believed this to be the case

But she was not arrested, just asked to reclaim her receipt. There may be a sign asking you to pay for goods before leaving the upper floor.

ScreamingFrog · 03/10/2022 18:50

I’ve read some spectacularly ridiculous things on this website, and this is right up there.

Please do sue them, and report back your findings 😂

EL8888 · 03/10/2022 18:51

If she wants to waste some money then why not? It sounds like a none issue to me

Spudina · 03/10/2022 18:52

If you walk out of a shop without a receipt or bag, it does look a bit suspect. Now a lot of shops ask “do you want a receipt” and this post has reminded me why I should always get one, when I usually say no, so thanks for that.
You are being massively unreasonable.

Rainraindontgoaway · 03/10/2022 18:52

LOL

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