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£4000 found when ripping out kitchen

348 replies

ElizabethDarcy88 · 13/06/2022 18:06

Today after having old kitchen ripped out our fitter found hidden a box and inside was £4000 in cash. ...we have informed solicitor who managed the sale. (It was a probate house sale) what do you think will happen?

OP posts:
Mix56 · 14/06/2022 07:33

My mum took my brothers & I to Chessington zoo in the 60's sat on a bench & found a handbag, she looked in it to fTRY & identify the owner & found a whole load of jewelry, (God knows why you take your jewelry to the zoo, we decided she was eloping)
So Mum handed the bag in to the desk or whatever it was at the time, (I was about 7)
Some time later she received a thankyou of a couple of thousand £

LezzaTheBean · 14/06/2022 07:40

willwewontwe · 14/06/2022 01:39

Okay this happened to us just a few months ago! £4600 we found in a box in a wall partition! The old person who lived here before us sold the house (still alive) and in the box was a note where they had been keeping track of money going in and out. Randomly these transactions stopped, years before selling the house, so I have no idea what happened or whether they actually maybe had a bit of dementia or something and completely forgot the money was there. How honest is your fitter though?! It was us who found ours and we haven’t told a soul for fear of him finding out we found it 🙈 I even have a story ready for if he was ever to arrive at the door and say he left something behind. I’d act confused and say ‘go and have a look’ then say so many workmen did the renovations that someone must have taken it and not told us 🤷🏼‍♀️ Finders keepers and all that. Although I do feel very guilty 😂

The 😂emoji at the end of this horrible little story is its crowning non-glory. It's almost unbelievable that people exist who would not only just take the money but have a lie prepared.

MarshaBradyo · 14/06/2022 07:43

willwewontwe · 14/06/2022 01:39

Okay this happened to us just a few months ago! £4600 we found in a box in a wall partition! The old person who lived here before us sold the house (still alive) and in the box was a note where they had been keeping track of money going in and out. Randomly these transactions stopped, years before selling the house, so I have no idea what happened or whether they actually maybe had a bit of dementia or something and completely forgot the money was there. How honest is your fitter though?! It was us who found ours and we haven’t told a soul for fear of him finding out we found it 🙈 I even have a story ready for if he was ever to arrive at the door and say he left something behind. I’d act confused and say ‘go and have a look’ then say so many workmen did the renovations that someone must have taken it and not told us 🤷🏼‍♀️ Finders keepers and all that. Although I do feel very guilty 😂

That is pretty bad

RedorangeyellowBLACK · 14/06/2022 07:52

willwewontwe my mum has Alzheimer’s. Honestly, if you had any understanding of the horrors of dementia you would not have joked about this. You really need to sit down and have a word with yourself. You really think it’s ok to keep money from an elderly person, regardless of their health status, knowing they are still alive?

ArtVandalay · 14/06/2022 08:09

willwewontwe Blimey, that’s a terrible admission. Do you not feel guilty? If this is true, you’re a bad person.

Clymene · 14/06/2022 08:21

Who would have thought MN was so full of people who happily steal from the elderly?

RedPlumbob · 14/06/2022 08:22

Alzheimer’s is why me, my siblings, my Dad and his siblings, and my Grandparents spent WEEKS ransacking my Great Grandmothers home prior to selling it to pay for care home fees. She grew up in absolute poverty and as a result, hid cash all over the house for her entire life.

We found money -

  • Behind loose wallpaper in every room, in envelopes
  • Inside all 3 mattresses
  • Under floorboards
  • Behind the kick boards in the kitchen
  • Inside the long disused fire but still there because it was old and beautiful
  • Shoved into the loft insulation
I’m still not convinced we found it all!
Twiglets1 · 14/06/2022 08:24

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 13/06/2022 23:42

You couldn't have spent it. Those notes are no longer legal tender.

It didn’t say in the original post that the notes were no longer legal tender?

Twiglets1 · 14/06/2022 08:26

CherryRipe1 · 14/06/2022 01:40

Great! I hope you get something out of it. Many years back when buying a house we 'inherited' size 13 purple satin fluffy mules under the floor boards + photos of the male seller in them and a huge carp frozen in a block of ice in the crappy ancient built in freezer.

And I hope you got something out of your found items too 🤣

hurtslove · 14/06/2022 08:37

People on this thread are absolutely disgusting. I am ashamed for you. Stealing from people.

Blossomtoes · 14/06/2022 09:16

It’s bad enough that you’d keep the money @willwewontwe but to prepare a lie to tell its rightful owner and then brag about it is absolutely despicable. It’s not even remotely funny, however many silly little emoticons you embellish that nasty little story with.

GodspeedJune · 14/06/2022 09:34

The story from @willwewontwe is absolutely hideous. How horrid that you’ve not only decided to pocket this man’s saving, but have a lie ready incase he realises.

Op, you did the right thing. Please don’t let people on here make you think you’re ‘too honest’. My Grandad used to hide money in the house once he became ill and worried about leaving his family behind.

vegang · 14/06/2022 09:40

@willwewontwe shame on you

Furryfeet · 14/06/2022 10:53

Endofdaysarehere · 13/06/2022 22:33

Really? In modern notes?

You found thousands in recent polymer currency that you could take to the bank?

Or did you find the old paper ones? The ones that cease to become legal tender in September.

handy timing if you did.

What a stroke of luck!

pedropony76 · 14/06/2022 10:56

willwewontwe · 14/06/2022 01:39

Okay this happened to us just a few months ago! £4600 we found in a box in a wall partition! The old person who lived here before us sold the house (still alive) and in the box was a note where they had been keeping track of money going in and out. Randomly these transactions stopped, years before selling the house, so I have no idea what happened or whether they actually maybe had a bit of dementia or something and completely forgot the money was there. How honest is your fitter though?! It was us who found ours and we haven’t told a soul for fear of him finding out we found it 🙈 I even have a story ready for if he was ever to arrive at the door and say he left something behind. I’d act confused and say ‘go and have a look’ then say so many workmen did the renovations that someone must have taken it and not told us 🤷🏼‍♀️ Finders keepers and all that. Although I do feel very guilty 😂

This is so unbelievably lucky omg! Imagine stumbling across £4.5K. I would have done exactly the same thing and had my lie prepared too

Hankiewair · 14/06/2022 10:56

My FiL died about 5 years ago. A few months after my MiL was staring at the fireplace and thought “That looks odd!”. She removed a panel and found £25,000 stashed in there. The old bastard never told her about it. We wonder where else he hid money. She doesn’t want us going through everything, so we’re respecting her wishes. She’s quite disabled, both upper and lower body, so she’s unable to check where else it might be. I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t have been stashed in one place.

InTheShadeOfTheOakTree · 14/06/2022 11:04

user375242 · 13/06/2022 19:37

The issue is the probate. It will now probably be absorbed in inheritance tax and legal fees. For that reason alone I'd not have involved anyone legally. If the people selling the house were alive and the money could be easily passed on then it's a different story.

Given the tiny percentage of estates that are subject to IHT, it's unlikely. Surely the solicitor will just make contact with the other family visa their solicitor. If that costs £4k I'd be astonished.

It's shocking how many people would keep money that belongs to a bereaved family.

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:08

What confuses me is why people stash multiple thousands of pounds away in wardrobes/under mattresses/in wall cavities etc. Banknotes - British ones anyway - change every 15 to 20 years or so, and the old ones become obsolete. So, if someone found a stash that an elderly person had had there since the 1980s or 1990s, then surely the money would be useless?

Blossomtoes · 14/06/2022 11:14

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:08

What confuses me is why people stash multiple thousands of pounds away in wardrobes/under mattresses/in wall cavities etc. Banknotes - British ones anyway - change every 15 to 20 years or so, and the old ones become obsolete. So, if someone found a stash that an elderly person had had there since the 1980s or 1990s, then surely the money would be useless?

Lots of reasons - don’t trust banks or paid in cash and avoiding tax are obvious ones. Old people don’t know about notes becoming obsolete, to be honest I didn’t know paper notes are about to stop being legal tender. It’s incredibly common - I found little stashes of cash all over the place when I cleared my parents’ house.

LilacPoppy · 14/06/2022 11:20

Notes are never obsolete only coins are. The Bank of England has to accept them forever.

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:41

Blossomtoes · 14/06/2022 11:14

Lots of reasons - don’t trust banks or paid in cash and avoiding tax are obvious ones. Old people don’t know about notes becoming obsolete, to be honest I didn’t know paper notes are about to stop being legal tender. It’s incredibly common - I found little stashes of cash all over the place when I cleared my parents’ house.

But it's a dangerous game to play. Not only do you risk the 1000s of £££ of banknotes becoming obsolete, but also, what if you're burgled? I've lost count of the amount of times I've read about homes being robbed, and various tech and electrical items have been taken, and £3000, £4,000, £5000 etc in cash stolen.

I just think 'WTF did you have that much cash lying around the house for anyway?' Confused

IcedOatLatte · 14/06/2022 11:44

What a vile person you are @willwewontwe are you proud of what you'e done? The use of stupid emojis suggests you think it's some kind of jolly jape.

I don't believe in karma but you deserve a shitty retribution.

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:44

LilacPoppy · 14/06/2022 11:20

Notes are never obsolete only coins are. The Bank of England has to accept them forever.

That's rubbish. They have no legal obligation to take old/expired notes that have not been legal tender for many years. Some banks will, some will not. They don't HAVE to.

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:45

IcedOatLatte · 14/06/2022 11:44

What a vile person you are @willwewontwe are you proud of what you'e done? The use of stupid emojis suggests you think it's some kind of jolly jape.

I don't believe in karma but you deserve a shitty retribution.

That is a bit of a corker isn't it? Shock

PurpleButterflyWings · 14/06/2022 11:49

Mix56 · 14/06/2022 07:33

My mum took my brothers & I to Chessington zoo in the 60's sat on a bench & found a handbag, she looked in it to fTRY & identify the owner & found a whole load of jewelry, (God knows why you take your jewelry to the zoo, we decided she was eloping)
So Mum handed the bag in to the desk or whatever it was at the time, (I was about 7)
Some time later she received a thankyou of a couple of thousand £

Yeah, why the F would you take 1000s of £££ worth of jewellery to the zoo? Confused