I fell pregnant with our daughter 3 months into our relationship. At the time I had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety a year prior to this and I was on medication. My GP advised that the medication I was taking posed risk to the development of babies heart and other organs so I stopped taking it immediately. Hormones hit hard after this and I really struggled with my emotions during pregnancy. My partner and I would argue often over the silliest things, and on a couple of occasions I phoned the police when our arguments got too much. This is how social services initially got involved and they would come and do little assessments and check in on us to make sure everything was going ok. Then when our daughter was born, even though both of us completely fell in love with her, the sleepless nights and stress of adjusting to being a new mum and dad took its tole on us. My partner told me to pack mine and our baby’s things and said he wanted us out of the house as soon as he returned from work. I called my mum in tears and I was so angry, there wasn’t enough room for me to move back in with my parents now so I was left with nowhere to go. In an act of spite, I called the social worker and police and told them he had assaulted me which was obviously a lie. The social worker said that she could no longer let me live in this house anyway with the baby and if I chose to stay then she’d have to take her. At the same time the police arrived and took a statement from me. After that my mum and I packed up all our things and I moved into her house again sleeping in the living room with our baby. I quickly regretted and realised what I had done and he and I were texting none stop and talking on the phone just desperately wanting to sort things out. 2 weeks later I’d found a new place for me and my daughter to rent and the same night we moved in he came and met us there. I’d dropped my statement with the police against him too and it was never taken to court! Another couple of weeks later, without social services knowing we’d been in contact, they closed the case. I can’t exactly remember what the letter said but I think he was supposed to have had supervised contact. We’ve been together the full time and now our daughter is now 5 years old and I have fallen pregnant for the second time. I have my booking appointment in two weeks and I’m terrified that when I tell my midwife who the father is she will refer to social services again and they will get back involved and take my daughter away and my baby when it’s born! Please can anyone help me I’m absolutely beside myself. I don’t know where else to turn. I just wish they could see how we are as a family and how happy our little girl is with us and how well she is cared for.