I have been going through an awful 10 months because of my ex husband having an affair. He has continually threatened me - refusing to pay the mortgage, barging his way into the house, threatening to come round at ridiculous hours of the night, threatening to break in (the house is jointly owned)
I reported him to the police because I reached my limit when he again refused to pay the mortgage and became threatening about breaking into the house. He pays mortgage in lieu of maintenance payments.
He has subsequently restarted his relationship with the OW and I did something foolish, following a full day of hassle from him. I emailed them both, detailing things he had said about her when they were separated. I gave her dates and times that I knew would be of interest to her, and I gave copies of text messages he had sent me about her. Not my finest moment, but I’ve had 10 months of abuse. She has reported me for harassment, and I’ve been invited in for a voluntary interview. This report comes 3 days after I had reported him, and over 2 weeks since I emailed them both.
The police won’t do anything about his threats to come to the house because he part owns it, even though he no longer has a key, and hasn’t lived here for 10 months, yet I’m to be interviewed for an email I sent. I did not threaten, I did nothing other than fill her in on information I was privy too.
I’m terrified. I just want them to leave me alone. She has also complained to the police about our daughter telling her dad the OW must be a shit mother. The police have told her she isn’t to contact her father, if she does, she may be in trouble.
Can anyone advise me what will happen to me?