Name changed.
My soon to be ex husband and I have been separated for several years. He was abusive in the marriage and continues to be emotionally abusive now. He's financially abusive too. Due to this I actively avoid all communication with him unless urgent regarding the children. I don't engage with him at all about matters that don't involve the children.
The divorce and financial settlement are ongoing via the solicitor and the solicitor is happy at the moment to contact him regarding the children too (I have legal aid).
Has anyone in a similar situation used a third party or solicitor to communicate after their divorce has been completed? I don't want to involve a family member on either side as a third party. How have others managed this kind of situation?
Thanks.