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I feel very let down by my university, I don't wish to go back now. What would you do? (discrimination problem)

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belledechocolatefluffybunny · 12/08/2010 18:29

I started a full time NHS bursary paid course a couple of years ago, I told them I had post viral fatigue before I started the course as this is what my GP told me. My sickness due to fatigue has been high. I became ill in April last year and, after tests, was diagnosed with MS. I have kept the university informed throughout, given them medical evidence, been through student support to set up a plan (which was crap to be honest, extra time in exams and to sort extensions for assignments out myself which the course leader wouldn't agree to without a GP note for each occasion, meaning there's a few non-submissions/late submissions). I've tried damn hard to get on with it, the fatigue caused by my disease is hard, they know I get really, really tired, I've been telling them for 2 years. It's not always safe for me to be on placement so I call in sick if I'm too tired as patient safety has always been my first priority, the last thing I would ever want is to put a patient in danger and get struck off.
I have been told by the university that I am not allowed any sick time, if I have any more time off she'll have me thrown off the course. She said I was a 'nightmare student' I feel as if I'm wedged into a corner. I know she can't do this, we all get grief off her, she's as compassionate as a brick. I do not wish to just quit, I've worked so hard but I feel as if I can't return, it's just too stressful and the MS relapsed last week, probably because of the stress of her and home problems. I can't run the risk of a relapse because of her, I'm unsure what to do now. I can do other things but it's not in me to allow her to do this to another student.
Have I done the right thing by taking the time off?
Thankyou Smile

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xMrsSx · 27/08/2010 00:13

Just wanted to say good luck in getting this all sorted out belle. No experience myself of the whole disability discrimination issue, but I am a radiographer. I don't know whereabouts in the country you are but where I am (North West) there has been a severe lackage of jobs for newly qualifieds in the last couple of years. I can fairly safely say that someone with a poor sickness record and who is pretty restricted in the hours she can work (we all know new Band 5s are expected to pick up all the shitty shifts) would really struggle to get a job here.

Please please dont think I am saying any of this to get at you or your choices, it really is only to make you think whether you are right to carry on with something so stressful for you for possibly no outcome (perhaps being an AP wouldnt be so bad?? and less stressful??). It would be horrendous for you to go through all this with the uni and your illness, pass but then not be able to find employment...

Like I said, I don't know where in the country you are though and maybe the job situation where you are is better than here. There is always the option of working privately (on the vans?? might be less physically exhausting??) or like you said, teaching.

Again, please take this post in the way it is meant, I really do wish you the best of luck with everything.

belledechocolatefluffybunny · 27/08/2010 00:21

Smile Thankyou. I know it won't be easy, sometimes it's not ment to be. There are alot of other avenues though so I don't necessarily have to work in the NHS. I'll have to see how the next year goes, especially with the medication, and take things from there. I'm in the East Midlands, the local hospital employs someone with MS, they have alot of shifts and are always willing to work around staff when they can so I'll keep my fingers crossed. There's not many jobs here at the moment though so I'll have to wait and see what happens. They are very happy with the way in which I deal and communicate with the patients and I've been told that my technique is very good so I don't think all is lost, I just need to keep the MS away (easier said then done), I hope the interferon helps Smile

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BlackandGold · 30/08/2010 10:12

Just a quickie Belle but wanted to say I hope you've already applied for a DSA as I know they can take some time to go through.

You should get 75% of taxi costs out of it though and any other help your assessor feels would be relevant.

belledechocolatefluffybunny · 07/09/2010 10:16

I've done that Black, I'm just waiting for them to process it. Smile

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