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How many children qualifies as a large family then?

29 replies

hunkermunker · 28/06/2008 12:10

Have seen three mentioned a few times on here, which isn't a large family, surely?

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NormaStanleyFletcher · 28/06/2008 12:11

Three certainly feels big enough to me

Miaou · 28/06/2008 12:12

hiya hunk - personally I would say four or more

SqueakyPop · 28/06/2008 12:14

I would say four or more, as it usually means a bigger car and pressure on bedrooms.

hunkermunker · 28/06/2008 12:25

Yep, I reckon it's four too - DH always says he doesn't want more than three (not even sure he'll be OK with three - but DS1 wants a new baby - DS2 went into a bed last night (perfectly fine, loves it - woohoo!) and DS1 had the cot in his room. It'll be disassembled today, but DS1 says it's there so the new baby can sleep in his room with him, which he'd love,apparently...!).

But four means you need a mahoosive car.

I guess three means two cabins on a ferry though...!

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 28/06/2008 12:28

I'd say four. As 2 is seen as 'normal/average' and three seems to be becoming more popular/common. There is some reasoning on my behalf somewhere there

Miaou · 28/06/2008 13:21

Nah, don't need a mahoosive car. We have a Volvo Estate with two seats in the back. We managed to go away for the weekend with all six of us in the car and our luggage, perfectly doable. Unless of course you think a Volvo Estate is "mahoosive" (I'm assuming you are thinking of people carrier type things).

Tbh, once you've had three, you might as well have another one ...

SqueakyPop · 28/06/2008 13:23

Would older children like to sit in the boot?

Miaou · 28/06/2008 13:48

they love it, squeaky pup (they are 9 and 11).

Wisknit · 29/06/2008 09:10

I am one of 3 so that to me seems the norm.
I would say 4 counts as larger

MindingMum · 29/06/2008 09:46

When DC5 was born I felt like we had a big family but now he's 5 and it doesn't seem that big at all, maybe it's just I'm de-sensitised to it?

I always think of a large family as 6 DC's +

cupsoftea · 29/06/2008 09:57

four or more

juuule · 29/06/2008 11:00

1-3 small
4-5 medium
6-9 large
10+ V. large

4andnotout · 29/06/2008 11:17

Im pg with dd4 and when people ask how many i have they are always shocked that she probably wont be the last!
Regarding the huge car we are now inheriting from my parents a hijet which is a tiny car but has 6 seats, its very economical as its only 1000cc! Its easily recognised too as its silver with pink butterflies and stars all over it

TsarChasm · 29/06/2008 11:19

Three feels big to me too...mind you if one or two are elsewhere I hardly notice the one or two that are with me.

I guess mums with more than three feel like that on the occasions when they 'only' have three in the house. It's all relative I guess.

nkf · 29/06/2008 11:20

Four and more.

Abitconcerned · 29/06/2008 16:39

Yeah it must be 4+

dragonbaby · 29/06/2008 16:49

there is me and dh with 6 children would that be large

Gobbledigook · 29/06/2008 16:58

I think 4+. There again, although I know tons of families with 3 and it seems pretty average to me, things are still very much geared towards families of 4 (2 adults, 2 children) so that 3 children is almost still considered the 'exception' rather than 'the norm' (packs of food with 4 things in, entry to places often give family tickets but only include 2 children, hotels have family rooms that only fit 2 children.....it goes on!).

Ate · 29/06/2008 23:07

I'm on my own with 3DC (6yrs, 3yrs, 5mths)and PG with DC4.

So, we'll only be a family of five but given I'll be doing all the work I deem it a large family.

Spidermama · 29/06/2008 23:16

Yep. Four. I just scrape in there. Would like to be more comfortably in the category but DH won't play any more.

cheesesarnie · 29/06/2008 23:23

id say 4 plus.i have 3.im one of 4.dh is one of 6.my dad is one of 5,mil one of 5,fil one of about 8.my mum one of about a zillion(dont ask)

bumpybecky · 09/07/2008 17:08

I think 6 kids plus is a large family. DH thinks 4 is enough to constitute a horde and is more than enough for us

I think society generally thinks 4+ is large.

OrmIrian · 09/07/2008 17:13

There are only five of us. But we're all quite large. DH is 6'2. I'm 5'11, DS#1 is 5'1.

caf1 · 10/07/2008 20:18

Large family? My neighbour here in Ireland is 1 of 15 kids and her husband is 1 of 9. Families of 4+ are no big deal here and 3 or less is def small!!

georgiemama · 10/07/2008 20:31

Now definitely 4 or more, even three is often thought as pushing it. I am one of three children and would love three, or more, but it's the cost of nursery, school, university. I don't think three is doable for us (not the way I want to do it) so it will probably have to be just two for us. DS is only 16 months and DH is already agitating for the next one!