There have been several threads lately discussing families with 3 or more children -how we are selfish for having more than 2, how our children must be starved of attention and love etc etc. I am stupidly taking these opinions personally and it's making me feel crap. I have 3 much wanted, loved and cherished children and with health problems, lockdown etc am finding things difficult at the moment. Does anyone have anything positive to say about having 3 or being one of 3?