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5 children and want 6th child

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SandyN89 · 03/03/2020 22:08

Hi everyone please be kind with your comments. Thank you

I have 4 children with my ex partner of 14years and I was in a domestic violence situation since I 16years. Started off with controlling etc and then went on to physical. Any short story he ran off with a co-worker and made sure he agreed it was a mutual break up otherwise he would manipulate me to get back with him. He got his new girlfriend the co-worker pregnant within a month of being with her. Which is fine doesn't bother me. I got engaged within a year and married a year later and got pregnant same year and had baby same year. I have 5kids in total now. My husband this is his first biological child and he has always wanted 2 kids. Now we are currently trying for or 6th child and my baby is only 6months. My question is am I crazy to have another so soon and it being my 6th. I'm turning 31 and always stated I want all my kids before I'm 35. But I feel I want this child but when I say out loud I will be a mother 6 I feel stupid and crazy.

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Tsubasa1 · 04/03/2020 15:20

You came from an abusive relationship, and your current partner wants 2 kids... could it be you are planning another baby just to please your partner? Reflect on whether this is what you truly want. If you are happy with your five babies then make this clear for your partner. You dont owe him.

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