Hi all. I'm hoping for some positive responses but more than that just keen to understand the experiences of others, positive and negative.
I'm 36 years old, non smoker, non drinker, healthy BMI. DD born start of last year, natural conception, normal pregnancy and birth.
Been ttc for 6 months with no joy (have been tracking ovulation). Attended an IVF clinic for assessment. DH results all normal. But I was told I have low AFC (7) and very low ovarian reserve, AMH (2.6pmol). So IVF recommended. I was absolutely floored by this news. I'd just assumed, having had a baby last year, that all was in order and that we were just unlucky with our timing or other factors.
I've been on the dreaded Google and for my AMH the chances of IVF success statistically look so low. We are not eligible for any of the refund programmes because of my AMH. So are facing upto the high potential of having to spend a lot of money with what looks to be a pretty non existent chance of success.
I'm wondering if there are others on here who have been in a similar condition to me, and what their experiences with IVF have been. Is it worth a try, or am I setting myself up for heartbreak?
Obviously we could look at the donor egg route. But I don't know if I could get my head around that.
Thank you to those who have read to the bottom 💕