Hi ladies, I drafted most of my reply below a few days ago so may be slightly out of date!
Yay @Dochas12111 well done on persevering! When’s your Day 1 due? I think you’re doing a medicated cycle?
@NewBee21
sorry for your failed transfers. If you plan to do a modified natural FET with a trigger, I think there is some merit in the ERA, in my opinion, as the timing is more precise than a completely natural FET. But the jury’s definitely out on ERA in general. There is not much difference in cost between doing the EMMA ALICE versus the three test together so that was one of my reasons for doing all three. EMMA ALICE definitely applies to all FET types. Yet, if your ERA is based on a medicated cycle, it is assumed that that’s the cycle type you’ll proceed with for the actual FET.
@ChickenT2b
good you’re feeling a bit better. There are a lot of decent studies on natural v modified natural v medicated FETs on Google. Try Remembryo, he did a good recent summary. You’ll have to register.
Success rates similar overall.The main purported advantage of modified/ natural are the better maternal and neonatal outcomes. This is sometimes put down to the presence of the corpus luteum in modified/nqtural. It’s more physiological.
@Enfys23
take all the time off that you need. I took 8 weeks after my 20 week loss and even then I had to force myself to return to work. Those 8 weeks were a blur and I didn’t really achieve anything apart from trying to learn to cope. Everyone is different so there’s no comparison.
@Gardenlady543 @2021ivfagain @Enfys23
Thanks for your enquirie. On Weds, I opted to cancel my FET, which was due to take place on Monday. This was down to, in my opinion, the lower than ideal oestrogen level and trends towards increased clinical miscarriage. Consultant said everything was fine to proceed so it was a tough call. Who knows, it may have been fine. He's not contacted me since so maybe he's fuming!
@2021ivfagain I really appreciated your message. It helps so much when people get it. I was always going to be on progesterone after FET. When you say HRT, do you mean estradiol too? I think some clinics in USA give that in natural/modified natural FETs as well as medicated. I don’t think it’s recommended prior to transfer as it can turn off the body’s natural feedback loop to produce E2. I might suggest a slightly higher dose than 75IU FSH. Why weren’t you on the 150 per day rather than 300 every other?! Just curious, likely makes no difference. I tested my Day 3 FSH a couple of months back and it was surprisingly low for my age (6.06IU/L). When will you start the FET, do you think?
My issue with the clinic is that they only do transfers 4 days per week and no longer same day blood results. I floated the idea of getting blood tests at another C clinic and even potentially moving embryo to one that did transfers 6xweek. This was by email so not had a response yet. I doubt I’ll get a favourable reply. Scares me to move the embryo anyway.
@ch did you say your branch does them 6xdays per week? Northampton or Manchester? Ok if you don’t wish to say.
In the mean time I’ve been scouring the net to find same day blood test results (hardly any options) and found Cherish in Sutton Coldfield so booked a few there for when I think will be days close to trigger. If my Day 1 arrives when I anticipate (30/03), the days might work with the clinic open days for FETs. But as well all know, futile trying to predict things in this game.
Hope everyone has a pleasant weekend.