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Weight loss for IVF 2021/2022

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WeightlossKin · 22/11/2021 20:24

I need to lose three stone to qualify for IVF. I've got one to lose for my referral and two more after that for treatment.
Creating this for myself and for others who might want to buddy up!

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WeightlossKin · 17/05/2023 17:59

Thanks @caffelattetogo I'll definitely consider it! We've got our consultation next week so will explore options then. I'm actually hoping we'll be eligible for egg sharing which will reduce the price but will likely look at IVF select or something. It's more overwhelming than I anticipated so I'm just going to be guided by the consultant!

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SerendipitySunshine · 07/06/2023 11:31

@WeightlossKin How did it go? Fingers crossed for you.

WeightlossKin · 07/06/2023 19:36

@SerendipitySunshine we've only had consultation so far 😊

We would potentially be eligible for egg sharing but said they wouldn't put us forward before having one round of IVF as there's no way to know if we'd produce enough eggs etc.

I've got a nurse planning meeting next week and after that we can start whenever my next period starts - although that's likely to be whilst we're away so might be the cycle after!

I will say though I feel so much happier having made the decision. My weight has stayed stable so I've not gone wild but I've stopped feeling deeply tormented by trying to lose the weight.

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caffelattetogo · 08/06/2023 14:00

@WeightlossKin that's so exciting! It'll all be happening before you know it.

Lauralozzle · 09/06/2023 09:49

@WeightlossKin That’s great. I know what you mean about feeling so much happier after not having bmi weight issue on you anymore. I feel much better now, so much less stress.

Hope your nurse appointment goes well next week!

NatW2021 · 18/10/2023 20:14

@WeightlossKin Hey! How you getting on? I posted a few times on this thread a while back. I went private for IVF due to my bmi being 34, managed to get it down from 40.

I had a cycle cancelled in July due to poor response so restarted in September on higher dose did much better, managed to get 2 embryos frozen on day 5, had a freeze all due to high progesterone so waiting for my first FET next month. X

WeightlossKin · 18/10/2023 21:00

@NatW2021 hey! Long time no see 😊 I went private too in the end. Well done on working so hard on your BMI! That's amazing!
Sorry you had a cancelled cycle how frustrating but glad the next one was more successful. 2 day 5s is great!
We did our first round in August, had 1 day 5 and 1 day 6 embryo frozen. Freeze all due to OHSS!
I'm just in the middle of my FET now and have my first transfer Tuesday next week!
How are you feeling? Do you start on your next period?

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MrsBiddy · 18/10/2023 21:28

Hi all ,

Hope everyone is well, I started letrozole in June and was prescribed 3 cycles worth. I ovulated on all 3 but no pregnancy unfortunately.

Had my consultation as I have x2 fibroids that 'might' need removing, so I'm now on the waiting list and I believe there is a 6/8month wait. He said I could do part ivf and freeze if they were an obstruction but if there is any obstruction then they would still freeze them as I'm at higher risk of ohss and continue once my body settles back to normal.

We have tests at the private clinic next week as all tests are out of date 🙂

The ladies that have had ivf privately, how did you juggle work E.g like time off for appointments etc?

Hope everyone is doing okay? Xx

MissLB · 19/10/2023 07:13

@NatW2021
Hi long time no speak everyone!
I actually got very good news! On the day I weighed myself and my BMI was 29.9, I also found out I was pregnant! After nearly 3 years of trying and a big operation to remove a massive cyst. I'm 18 weeks now
Miracles do happen
Although I do feel like I'm gaining all my weight back very quickly...
I know you'll all have best of luck with conceiving as well :)

Lauralozzle · 19/10/2023 08:05

@MrsBiddy This last fresh cycle my work have been very good. I get time off for scans and I had special leave for egg collection. I’ve been very upfront with my manager and she’s been excellent.

Cycle before I didn’t tell anyone and had annual leave to cover egg collection. I had my scans early, but we work flexi time so no one battered an eyelid with me starting work at 9:30 in morning.

Lauralozzle · 19/10/2023 08:05

@MissLB Congrarulations!

NatW2021 · 24/10/2023 15:47

@WeightlossKin Hey, glad you have got started, when are you in for transfer? I'm about a week away from my period all being well then I start, I'm doing a natural cycle, I'm just bracing myself as there always seems to be an issue and nothing goes to plan. I'm really worrying it won't work all the waiting round doesn't help. X

@MissLB Omg congratulations how amazing!!!!! Bet you couldn't believe it!! Remind me had you started ivf? I can't help but hope and pray this happens to me and I cling on to it every month even after all this time and heartbreak x

MissLB · 24/10/2023 17:47

NatW2021 · 24/10/2023 15:47

@WeightlossKin Hey, glad you have got started, when are you in for transfer? I'm about a week away from my period all being well then I start, I'm doing a natural cycle, I'm just bracing myself as there always seems to be an issue and nothing goes to plan. I'm really worrying it won't work all the waiting round doesn't help. X

@MissLB Omg congratulations how amazing!!!!! Bet you couldn't believe it!! Remind me had you started ivf? I can't help but hope and pray this happens to me and I cling on to it every month even after all this time and heartbreak x

No we hadn't! It was a couple of weeks after they'd finally agreed to put us on the waiting list! Couldn't believe it! Didn't actually find out until nearly 6 weeks because I just didn't believe I could be pregnant!

caffelattetogo · 25/10/2023 20:48

So much lovely news. Congratulations all. After losing the weight for ivf twice (with a successful transfer in the middle) I've just lost it again, after our second transfer (we were v lucky, this one also worked). So just back with a BMI of 29.9 after a five stone gain for each pregnancy. It's been like climbing a mountain each time.
Good luck everyone with your journeys.

NatW2021 · 21/11/2023 13:29

@WeightlossKin - how you getting on? I'm in the dreaded TWW and driving myself mad! X

WeightlossKin · 24/11/2023 21:27

Hi @NatW2021 so sorry I didn't get back to you! I had my transfer and it was so lucky to be able to say itsy successful so far (i am on an IVF thread as well but slightly different username).
How are you doing in your tww? When is your official test date?

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NatW2021 · 25/11/2023 13:52

@WeightlossKin omg amazing!! HUGE. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

I'm ok I'm out, testing negative I've cried and cried but slowly starting to accept it. Hoping I have some positive news in the future x

WeightlossKin · 25/11/2023 14:36

I'm so sorry you tested negative @NatW2021 take time to look after yourself and feel however you need to. It's just a numbers and lucky bag game isn't it? Fingers crossed for your future cycle. I hope you can do something nice for yourself x

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NatW2021 · 04/04/2024 18:57

@WeightlossKin Hope you are well! Just thought I'd pop on and update, I'm 15 weeks pregnant now, still can't believe it. X

caffelattetogo · 04/04/2024 22:01

@NatW2021 congratulations! Wonderful news!

WeightlossKin · 05/04/2024 12:23

@NatW2021 that's such amazing news! I'm so happy for you ♥️ congratulations!! How are you feeling?

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