7dp5dt FET

[Mumofone07]

Hey everyone, I'm currently 7dp5dt on my first FET. I had a failed fresh transfer last year I started spotting at 6dp5dt so I new I was out the game! We had 3 left in the freezer so had one 5BA blastocyst transferred on the 20th of April 😀 I have not really had that many symptoms. I had cramping the evening of transfer and then right side cramping 2dp5dt. The day of 5dp5dt my belly just felt weird and my nipples were tingly and felt a bit sicky. I came home from work and just had to take a test and to my surprise it came back with a bfp!! My line is getting stronger but ofcourse I'm still so worried! My OTD isn't till the 5th of May 😱🙏 not sure what I'm asking but anyone else with the same sort of dates? Xxx pic of my tests :) xxx

Hi ladies! How are you doing?
@willithappen @Mumofone07
Have you had your bloods and midwife app?
12w scans booked in?
Xx

Hi @Sungirl11
Back into panic mode here haha. I need to stop googling and reading things. As soon as I read something with someone saying they had a mmc at 8/9 weeks I then convince myself that it's going to happen to me! Going to be a looong wait until 12 weeks.

I have my midwife appointment on the 11th June, so I will be 10 weeks then. No date for the scan though and not sure the process for getting that through.
How are you?

@willithappen people M/C until very late... and when it's not possible to M/C they also have stillbirths or deliver too early..
A lot of dramas happen very sadly! But no, it doesn't have to be you!
Same as cancer etc... a lot of people have it, women your/my age, colour, nationality... but doesn't have to be you/me!
There are millions of women pregnant all over the world and it's a veeerrryyy little percentage that have issues. Specially after baby is already proper implanted.
Please try to enjoy your pregnancy, because your time will go and you will have been worrying 99% for no need.
Think positive, your pregnancy is good, your body is intelligent and your pregnancy will be perfect and healthy 🧘🏻‍♀️
I know it will be ❤️

@willithappen it's hard not tonworry isn't it especially like you I have seen a few post where babies stopped growing. But need to keep positive. I have a scan booked in on Monday with my clinic, have midwife appointment on the 16th I give up with trying to work out how far I am now I need to see the midwife before I can book my 12 week scan, so once I have that appt I will ring the number and book it :). How are you doing @Sungirl11? Symptoms wise they have seemed to have gone away really. I just feel abit rough in the evenings and have a horrible taste in my mouth. Sounds odd how it's just in the evening though. Oh and I have still been getting headaches xx

@Mumofone07 I'm completely fine! Apart from the standard, mild sore breasts and tiredness, I have no symptoms at all.
I really don't feel pregnant at all hahah

Strange how each place works differently. I've had my scan booked in automatically but my midwife hasn't called or anything yet. I just got a letter saying it was booked, and they booked wrong date because they went with my period which isn't in sync with my IVF, so called and got it changed.
Midwives think I'm 9+2 so i'm confused as to what they are waiting for to book my appt and 8-10w bloods. But as I have been forgotten so many times by my IVF clinic, i'm sort of used to it already 🙈
The problem is I work from next week and I do childcare so can't not go to work to go to and appointment as I can't leave the kids alone! So they will have to schedule around me...

I also have the Harmony test and scan booked at 10w (in 12days). So will se my bean then too. 😍
Xx

Hi girls I just wanted to update you both I have had a missed miscarriage. Had a private scan today as I got sbit anxious and she couldn't find a heartbeat. Think little beans heart must of stopped few days after my previous scan. Hope you both have a healthy & happy 9 months xx

@Mumofone07 I am so so sorry to read this :( can't imagine what you are going through/feeling.
If you want to talk more I'm here, but completely understand you taking a break. This is such a hard process :(

@Mumofone07 aw no! Is it definitely? Or are you going to check or get bloods or something?
I am so so sorry, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. It's all so hard 😔
As @willithappen says we are here for anything you need, anything at all.
I'm sending you my biggest hug and well wishes ❤️

Hi girls, just a little update.
I had it confirmed there wasn't a heartbeat on Monday, I was booked in for today to have surgical management, but Monday night I lost 2litres of blood and ended up being rushed into hospital needed a transfusion and ended up having emergency surgery at 3 o'clock in the morning. They are going to be sending out little bean off to Oxford for genetics tests to see if there was anything wrong and I'm also being referred to the miscarriage clinic as its not my first miscarriage. Hope things are going well for you both. Xx

@Mumofone07 i'm so sorry to hear this. It sounds like a right nightmare 😔
Hope you are feeling better and healing day by day a bit. It's good it's all being investigated as this will give you information as to why it's happening and maybe there is something that needs to get sorted. I've seen this happen quite a lot and sometimes it's easily sorted but until spotted it just doesn't work.
I send you my biggest hug, I get really sad at this. I've seen quite a few MC recently and it's heartbreaking.
We saw our bean yesterday at 9w and he (or she) is doing good, we have the harmony test in a week and i'm a bit terrified. Just hope my mom is protecting my baby from heaven❤️

@Mumofone07 I honestly can't imagine what you are going through. Of course I have been imagining this constantly since that first BFP but actually going through it like you are now, my heart breaks for you. I hope you are able to get some answers with the investigations that you get.

I will try update this thread with my journey briefly, so if anyone searches and comes across it later on they can see our experiences but I don't want to say too much considering all you are going through.
Sending you lots of love

Hey @willithappen & @sungirl11 just checking in to see how you guys are?

@Mumofone07 hi lovely!
I'm doing fine, yesterday started third trimester so not long to go now. All going well and having the best pregnancy.
How are you doing? X

Wonderful news. Glad everything is going really well for you did you find out what you are having? I'm doing really well thank you, started a new job couple if months ago and just been getting myself ready to try again. X

@Mumofone07 so glad you are doing well and congrats on your new job!
We are having a baby girl, Leia Ana ❤️
I was really convinced I had a boy and it was such a big surprise! I was happy with anything to be honest, so i'm over the moon with my monkey. Enjoying the pregnancy a lot but can't wait to have her with us, she will bring the joy we need after so much loss this year.
Let us know how you get on and when you have big news! I have all my thoughts with you x

@Xx40yearsyoungxx I'd recommend reading OP's updates. You might want to ask for your comment to be removed and to start your own thread.

@Scirocco - thanks
I didn’t want to start my own thread , I just wanted to say I was thinking about OP.
I had got to the end of the thread and there didn’t appear to be any more comments so was just trying to be nice. I don’t know why my message was removed as it was a nice one? I’m obviously missing something, having very rarely used this app.