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Starting the journey thread 2

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squirrelnutkins1 · 14/05/2019 21:27

So we're nearly at 1000 posts.... setting this up ready for round 2 when the other is full.

I've tagged all the regulars I think (please forgive me if not ❤️❤️❤️) and anyone else who has commented on the thread ever if you'd like to come back and fill us in!

Here's to support and success 🎉💐

@2fingers22018
@VenusStarr
@Kelly199
@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF
@CloudSway
@GreyC
@veeboo
@mrsmch123

@bump2be
@ells0204
@claudie86
@nataliejayne26
@trying81
@sl85
@pinkroseuk
@chloeh99
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Kelly199 · 01/07/2019 19:57

@squirrelnutkins1 🤣 I'm the same when I go! I'm ok thank you. Finished my last clomid tablet again last night this is the fourth round now. Just really hoping I'll have luck this month. Got acupuncture booked for Saturday, so hoping they'll give me a bit more of a chance. Disheartening isn't it the more time that goes on?!
How are you on the letrozole? Hope you're doing ok with everything xxx

veeboo · 01/07/2019 20:06

@kelly199 we are going to portugal. Good luck sharing the news when you do @finallytakingtheplungewithivf. Cramps are here in full force now so I'm resigning myself to bad news

2fingers22018 · 01/07/2019 20:08

@Kelly199 fx the clomid finally works i know its hard to stay positive so al just say stay strong💞 @squirrelnutkins1 ur right the medications progress how ur oh been? @veeboo im meant to b goin to a wedding at the weekend as long as my backs bit better x where r u off to on sat?!

Kelly199 · 01/07/2019 20:09

@veeboo aww lovely!! Supposed to be really nice there and perfect weather at the moment to go away with the heatwaves!! Really hope you have a great time and can relax!
Sorry you're having cramps. Hopefully af will stay away xx

Kelly199 · 01/07/2019 20:11

@2fingers22018 thank you. I know, I am struggling to stay positive. Horrible just trying so hard to try and do everything right to help so this month I'm trying to relax a little more!! ❤️
How is your back?
Hopefully it'll be better by the wknd so you can go. Hope you're ok xxx

squirrelnutkins1 · 01/07/2019 21:07

@Kelly199 Just hope I remember to do it! Might have to put a reminder in my phone lol!!! It really is hard to keep up the positivity! All the best for your next cycle 🙏🏻 let us know how you go with acupuncture!
I've booked some reflexology in line with the timing of (hopefully) ovulation. You read all sorts on line, getting a bit desp so will try anything lol!

Yeah feeling ok on it so far 👍🏻

Ooh have a great time! @veeboo sorry about the cramps. If af comes you can enjoy some guilt free cocktails! I had to view it like that when we went away. I never really drink but I really enjoyed doing it on hol!

@2fingers22018 oh is doing much better thanks for asking xx how's yours doing? Has he had a date thru for counselling? Ooh enjoy the wedding 😊

I've got my counselling session on Friday with the new lady. Spoke to her on the phone this morning so we'll see how that goes! Then scan and reflexology next week, so busy busy. Can not believe it's July! How mad is that!?!

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GreyC · 01/07/2019 21:09

@squirrelnutkins1 hope your getting on ok with you new medication.
@Kelly199 I had my first acupuncture today & I loved it!! Felt all tingly & relaxed but full of energy.
Also my referral for ivf was sent today and we are going tomorrow to meet the team for a informal met and greet - then just waiting for our consultant appointment. I am so excited!! The nurse today who did our paper work was so lovely and positive. She reassured me so much especially we only get one funded round but I’ve found. Out today that say we get 15 eggs: 12 fertilised then they will implant one and freeze the good quality ones and then implant them all as part of the cycle and freeze for future siblings!! Hopefully it works first time but it’s really helped put my mind at ease :)

squirrelnutkins1 · 01/07/2019 21:11

@GreyC ah that's great news! So glad you've had some positive news and enjoyed your acupuncture! Xx

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squirrelnutkins1 · 01/07/2019 21:21

I don't know why I've just done it but I've just worked out I'd have been 20 weeks this week 💔☹️ how stupid am I. I told myself not to do it but I counted up anyway. Urgh 😢😢😢

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GreyC · 01/07/2019 21:30

Oh @squirrelnutkins1 - thinking of you 💔💕

Kelly199 · 01/07/2019 21:38

@squirrelnutkins1 🤣🤣 all the little things, ey? Lol.
Thank you. Wishing you all the best too 🤞🏼
I will do. I'm actually looking forward to it and I think it'll help give me a boost and feel like I'm doing something good towards helping my chances!!
That's supposed to be really good too! Let me know how you get on and I may book that in!
Exactly! That's the point I'm at now! No matter the cost, willing to try anything (within reason obviously!!).
Really hope Friday will go ok. Did she sound nice on the phone?
Maybe it's a good thing you're being kept busy 😘😘
I know, it's so so crazy!!!! Can't believe how quick the time is going!! Yet when we want the 2ww to hurry, it doesn't and seems to drag - unbelievable 🤣 xxx
So so sorry ☹️ I can't imagine how you must feel. It's crazy really to think of how quick the time has gone, isn't it?
Sending you so much love and hugs. Really wish I could take away your pain ❤️❤️ hopefully you will have good news to share soon. Fingers crossed for this cycle for you ❤️ I know that won't take away the sadness for you loss, but at least you will have a new life to look forward to. I really hope it'll happen for you soon. Hope you'll be ok xxxx

@GreyC glad you loved it!! I'm looking forward all the more now. I'm hoping I'll feel the same after it!
Good news with your ivf referral!! Hope the meet and greet goes well.
Glad the nurse was nice. It helps a lot doesn't it!
That's amazing!!! I didn't know they do that. Aww I bet you're so pleased. Such good news. Wish you the best of luck for your meeting and hope you'll have good news to share with us soon 💗

veeboo · 02/07/2019 11:06

@squirrelnutkins1 I am so sorry you are feeling down. Hopefully counselling will go well Friday. I am glad you've not had to wait long for a new person. Take care xx
@GreyC that's great news on all counts! I am enjoying accupuncture, had 2 sessions now. Thanks for sharing that info about ivf...I had thought that was the case but wasn't sure. Very reassuring. Glad you've left feeling upbeat.
Hope you're alright @kelly199

Kelly199 · 02/07/2019 11:52

@veeboo I'm ok thank you.
How are you? Glad you've found acupuncture good too! How often do they advise you to go? I know it will vary wherever you go..
can you feel the needles going in? Lol xx

squirrelnutkins1 · 02/07/2019 12:51

Thanks xx @GreyC my own silly fault!

@Kelly199 I've never thought to try it it sounds good tho! Is it expensive? Yeah I will do, I've read good things about reflexology so will see. I used the Treatwell website. I've got an initial appointment for an hour and a hour and it's only £15! Aww thank you. It was my own silly fault really 😢

@veeboo thank you xx I'm ok. Just had a wobble.

Day 3 of Letrazole and all seems ok. I did wake up in the night with a really bad stitch but again could be coincidence, who knows!

Hope everyone is having a good day. Xx

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Kelly199 · 02/07/2019 13:47

@squirrelnutkins1 from what I've read on the website, the first treatment that includes the consultation is £65 and then £43 each one after. Don't know if that's good or bad, but only chose them because they're supposed to specialise in fertility acupuncture.
I think I'll enquire about the reflexology whilst I'm there because I think I'd prefer to have that treatment!
That's really good!! I'll have to try find somewhere that does it for that as that's really reasonable!
Well, it's not. I think I would've done the same. Just our minds trying to cope with something and constantly wondering.
Hope you're ok ❤️❤️
How many days letrozole? Is it 5 days the same as clomid ? Xx

Kelly199 · 02/07/2019 14:08

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF have you had your results? Hope all ok. How are you feeling? Xx

veeboo · 02/07/2019 15:43

@kelly199 she said weekly but at least fortnightly. I'm going to try 2-3 times a month and see how I go. It's around the same process you have said.

The needles are incredibly fine. She sort of taps them in. It's a sharp scratch and then goes. They ask you how you feel and of it does twinge or anything they will adjust it and then you dont really feel much, maybe the odd tingle. When they come out its pain free. I had very small red marks on a couple of points but they went after a few hours.

veeboo · 02/07/2019 17:03

That should say price, not process!

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 02/07/2019 17:30

Wow it’s been busy today!

@veeboo sorry you’ve got cramps hope af hasn’t appeared!

@GreyC exciting news about the referral hope it all goes smoothly!

@squirrelnutkins1 glad you got another session hope this one goes well!

@Kelly199 yes it’s gone up to 476 so am really pleased! I also did a clear blue digital this am and it said 3+ not sure how that works though as not sure my hcg levels would be that high based on Sunday’s results! I’m ok am absolutely exhausted and my boobs are so sore!! How are you I thought I read somewhere you were feeling down if so I hope your ok?

How is everyone else hope I’ve not missed anyone! Xx

squirrelnutkins1 · 02/07/2019 17:43

Ah that's good then that you've found a fertility specialist one. Might do some investigating, see if there's anywhere local. I had reflexology once years ago by a friends mum. She didn't mention about anything being wrong. I don't really know how it all works, quite fascinating but apparently it can clear blockages and break down some bits of endometriosis so we'll see! Yeah 5 days so just tomorrow and Thurs to go. I googled the stitch type pain and read on a few forums about it. Seems very common. It's rib pain just under your boob. Very random.

I do feel slightly on edge about the Letrazole as it isn't actually an approved fertility drug, it's used for people with breast cancer! I'm glad I'm just taking it for short spates of time
@Kelly199

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF thank you XX. So happy your results are on the up 🎉 does that mean you're classed as around 5 weeks then cus I think you add 2 weeks on to the clear blue dates? What's next for you, any follow up or just 12 week scan? Xx

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FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 02/07/2019 17:46

@squirrelnutkins1 I am sure the drs wouldn’t give you it if it didn’t help try not to worry! I should be 5 weeks tomorrow so was expecting a 2-3 on it! I have a scan at 6weeks well it be 6 weeks and 2 days so a week on Friday!

GreyC · 02/07/2019 21:12

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF such exciting news!
@squirrelnutkins1 glad your feeling ok and I hope your new medication has a good impact too.
@veeboo thanks - the informal chat went well thanks really great place and such friendly and helpful people so I am very excited to get started. Have to do a few forms then get my AMH tested and another 🙄 folic scan to count my follicles and then our protocol consultation! Eeep.

veeboo · 02/07/2019 21:21

@GreyC so exciting!! Sorry if you've said this before but is your ivf private?
@finallytakingtheplungewithivf sounds like good news about your tests. Hope you're doing okay.
Cramps have subsided here but that would be usual for me. Af not due until Sunday/Monday. I'm still a bit in the hope zone but planning where we are going to eat and drink in Porto so I remain a bit realistic..I've even booked us into a port tasting!

squirrelnutkins1 · 02/07/2019 21:32

@GreyC ah I'm so pleased if went well for you! Xx

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squirrelnutkins1 · 02/07/2019 21:33

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF eek, so exciting! Let us know how your scan goes! X

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