My friend has been TTC for 5 years.
She asked me in January if I was going to start a family and I told her I was trying that month for the first time.
Last month she had her 2nd round of IVF and it did not work. I am now 10 wks pregnant. I'm seeing her this weekend when I will probably tell her I'm pregnant then. I feel like waiting longer to say might upset her more.
Has anyone got any tips on what to say or what not to say?
I feel so bad that this 2nd round of IVF didn't work for her and guilty for falling pregnant straight away when she's had a 5 year struggle and has not managed to get pregnant yet!
We have other friends who are going through IVF and one of the husbands told my husband that every time his wife saw a pregnancy announcement she would get upset and my friend also mentioned last year that she struggled a bit when her friend had a baby!