Hi OP,
This pretty much happened to me on my first IVF about 10 years ago- 12 follicles, 10 mature eggs, ICSI performed, and only 2 fertilized, and only one was good enough to transfer, and they considered that one poor quality (grade 3). The cycle failed. They said that they had found the 'shells' of the eggs difficult to penetrate when performing ICSI. We had funded that cycle ourselves.
I remember being on my knees, in a ball, howling like an animal. I was 32, and being presented with egg issues, on top of my DH's rubbish sperm, was like a kick in the guts. I went back to the consultant, and he was very reassuring, that these things happen randomly, and I had only about a 1 in 200 chance of it happening again. I'm sorry, but Ican't remember how he worked out his stats, but we were v reassured.
Fast forward 4 months to our next retrieval. I was lying in recovery, when they came to ask my husband for another sample, as the container must have been contaminated, as the sample swimmers weren't swimming. I heard all of this through a post drug haze, but I managed to sit up and say " but we're here for ICSI, BECAUSE of poor motility. The embryologist looked at his notes, perplexed. Nobody had written it on my notes in biro across the top - this was their highly scientific system to notify when ICSI was needed!
7 fertilized, 2 transferred, one baby girl 42 weeks later. FET 10 months, 2 embryos transferred. Morning sick for DD first birthday, 2 baby boys born 38 weeks later, both 7 pounders.
Consultant offered to tie my tubes during the CS, but I informed her that there was no need, as we couldn't conceive as DH has motility of