I'm not surprised your brain is fried
- so, so much to think about. I don't think people realise quite how difficult it is to go through. Be gentle with yourself, give yourself as much space as you need.
So glad to hear that your antral follicle count wasn't bad - that's really encouraging! And with DH taking antioxidants, that's a really positive move as well (was it reduced mobility with a high % of abnormal forms/abnormal morphology the last time by any chance?)
Roasted if you're not sure about either clinic then there is still time to look at other options. The only thing I would suggest is that you get hold of your notes from Leeds so that you've got copies of absolutely everything (you have probably done this already) and, if you do decide to go somewhere else, then you're good to go.
I know it's bad form to recommend another forum (sorry MNHQ!) but have you had a look at FertilityFriends? There is lots of helpful advice about loads of clinics, and reading other people's experiences might help a bit. As I've said above, don't be scared to look at open evenings etc - the idea is that you have an opportunity to visit a place and get a "feel" for them before you finally decide where to have treatment.
Obviously, for balance, the fertility (sorry, I HATE the term "infertility" - it always sounds so bloody negative!) and conception sections on MN are fantastic too 
What does your DH think? Have you talked about where he felt more comfortable? Sometimes a partner can have a different take on things, particularly as it's female patients who have to go through most of the testing/procedures - even the experience of being in waiting rooms can be eye opening!