Help! Just been told we will need IVF. Kind of freaking out!

[Bunnygirlie]

Had first FC appointment this week and our consultant says that it's highly unlikely we will get PG naturally and will need ICSI.

A lot to take in, mixed feelings galore! Happy that we have a plan but so sad that it won't happen naturally for us, angry that my body is crap and stressed about the whole idea of IVF!

Would really appreciate any advice, experiences and hand-holding

[Bunnygirlie]

Good good!

We're you nervous about doing the deed, I was! Worried about catching stitches!

[Blondeshavemorefun]

hello all - waiting for af after my manic bonking after dye&lap - sure im not preg :(

have had my 6week app through, for about 3 weeks now-so wi; chat through ivf etc options then

[pinkapples]

Just wanted to offer some thoughts hubby and I knew we'd struggle as I have pcos but when we were told that IVF was probably the only way to have a baby we were gutted (especially as this was after clomid and injections and a lap and dye with drilling) we had one cycle of IVF which failed and although it was hard we knew we wanted a baby we went for ICSI last September and it worked we now have a beautiful nearly 5 month old as a result

It is hard and it is so important to stay strong and keep communicating with your partner but you will ultimately get through it all with beautiful babies

[Blondeshavemorefun]

thanks for happy update pinkapples :)

af came today :( didnt think i was preg, as know i cant, or would be a bloody miracle ...... but always that what if ....... :(

[pinkapples]

Your welcome blondes
Sorry to hear about AF crack open the or and biscuits if your off the wine x