Weegiemum, you know it amazes me how my fellow Scots are always starting these threads. For people who keep proclaiming their national identity so loud and proud all over the place, many Scots seem to have one hell of a preoccupation with England.
And if I hear one more Scot say "Oh, it'd be terrible if England won the World Cup because then we'll never hear the last of it. It's like 1966, they're always going on about it - they're sooo arrogant!" I might just snap and stuff a bunch of very sour grapes right up their kilt.
I'm a Scot who has lived in England for over 15 years, and I have never heard anyone other than John Motson or Clive Tyldesley even mention 1966. Seems to be more of a hot topic in Scotland these days...
I also do not accept the argument that the Scots are always having English media coverage of the football (or anything else) foisted on them. Between BBC Scotland, STV, Grampian, Radio Scotland/Forth/Clyde/Tay etc, The Daily Record, The Scotsman (named in case you forgot where you were for a second), The Herald, Scotland on Sunday (another reminder-title!), to name just a few, you can virtually ignore England and its news most of the time, should you so choose. Scotland undoubtedly has its own news and its own preoccupations. Nothing wrong with that, but you can't have it both ways and keep moaning on about the English bias in the English media too.
Now this is not an ad feminem attack on Weegiemum, and I know there'll be other Scots reading this who will think "Traitor, parcel o' rogues, sucking up to the English", etc. If so, tell me this:
What's your problem with the flag of the only 'home nation' that has qualified for the World Cup hanging over Downing Street?
Or maybe you could try one of these questions instead:
Know many English people?
Have many English friends, do you?
Ever tried living in England?
Lived anywhere other than Scotland?
I am so sick of being embarrassed by the ungracious, self-satisfied, parochial, self-pitying attitudes that seem more and more prevalent in Scotland whenever I go back there. I used to love the place, but I'd trade my nationality now if I could.
FWIW, I grew up in the Central Belt in the 1980s and early 1990s. I've seen plenty of what Thatcherite politics and unrepresentative, out-of-control government from afar can do, and I don't need any sodding history lessons. There used to be a shared understanding on the Left that working class Scots and English people had a common interest and had both been exploited by the scions of Fettes, Gordonstoun and Eton alike. This sort of thinking now seems largely to have gone out of the window north of the border, replaced by one big money-grab/power-grab/vindictive binge on the politics of revenge.
I'm sorry to hear of anyone who has had a bad experience as a non-English person in England, but I can only report that I have been made welcome and treated with total respect the whole time I have lived here (have lived in South-West, South-East, now Midlands).
Oh, and yes, when I was young and stupid I used to laugh and cheer when England got beaten at football, 'cause that's what you do when you're Scottish, isn't it? My English DH and friends continued to be nice to me despite this. They joked with me, were tolerant and cut me some slack. They didn't keep reminding me that they were English and ramming down my throat how superior their English culture/football/politics/way of life was. They didn't even talk about being English, and they still don't. (I appreciate that my fellow Scots may find this hard to credit, so far removed is it from their very specific and unmatchably Scottish experience of Scottishness). Some might argue that as the 'dominant nation' the English don't need that kind of validation. Perhaps that's true, but these days I am more inclined to think that they didn't/don't do this because that kind of behaviour is actually fucking rude, unpleasant, tedious and is not how a mature and self-confident nation behaves.
Ok. I feel better now. Goodnight.
P.S. I hope England win the World Cup. Scotland isn't my home any more - England is.