Litchick - despite being a life long Tory. I sort of felt the same as you do now when Tony Blair came to power and the Major Govt got kicked out.
At the time, I just felt that there were a bunch of career politicians at the top of the Tory party who didn't care. They were detached from voters. I genuinely wanted Tony Blair to address things like fairness in employment contracts, dealing with pension deficits, equality issues, reform of the welfare state, reform of the NHS, sorting out education so all kids get a chance. These were/are things that I thought were solid Labour territory and while Thatcher had to break some eggs to get things done - I also thought there were areas that there was a lot to be done for the poorer less well off in society.
It has not happened. I know I am bound to be disappointed but I just hope some of the things that Ian Duncan Smith (welfare reform), Michael Gove (Education) have been talking about get done. I also want Dave Cameron to make Frank Field a peer to sit on the cross benches and get him to implement real pension reform. I also want solid political backing for real enforcemet of sensible work place rights and equality law. This is not Tory 'policy' but it is something that would make a difference to millions of people up and down the income scale and across the political spectrum of society.
I do think LABOUR is dead for ever and hope that it emerges as a left of center merged party with LibDems. Obviously a very great many Labour/Tory/LibDemm supporters have a lot of common ground on may issues so I just hope some of the things that did not get sorted out under Labour get sorted out under a Cameron Tory Govt perhaps even with tacit support from some LibDem/Labour MPs occassionally.
After all, even though Thatcher was/is widely hated by Labour supporters but a lot of 'working class' people did well under Thatcher by founding businesses, buying their own home, etc. None of the mainstream political parties are all bad but a party in power for too long is always bad.