'I think it's wilfully short-sighted to judge someone on that score.'
You do, Holy?
Because I'm a randy horndog myself. And a pretty one.
I'm a big ex-slag who, when I was 19, had an affair with my 43-year-old married professor. It's the biggest regret of my life and when people tell me he took advantage of his position, all I can think of is my personal responsibility in the matter and how lowlife it is to go with someone who is married.
Later on, I was married, and my husband at the time didn't want children, he wanted to go climb 8000m peaks. I hated him for that.
I could have slept with any number of people.
But instead one night I told him, 'I'm thinking of sleeping with someone else.'
Because when people are brought up with a real sense of principles and to really care about other people, which is the hallmark of a good leader, they think of the happiness of others. They put that first, sometimes.
When someone doesn't, and on top of that they make it all public, I think less of them.
I find them too weak and selfish to be a leader, because I know, perhaps from a different milieu (climbing), that leading is hard.
Zac could never understand something like that. Of that I'm about 100% sure. Because in his little mind, it's all good because Zac thought it was right and Zac so obviously can't conceive of the notion that what is right for Zac isn't right for everyone, so maybe Zac should fecking reign it in.
THAT is what leading is about, IME and IMO.