Thanks for your responses Justine and sorry that you've had to deal with all this while MNHQ is running on a skeleton holiday staff (wasn't it this time of year when SWMNBN kicked off??)
This has made me think long and hard about how I use MN - I regularly namechange and am very cautious about giving any personal details. I don't worry about being stalked or people being able to piece together my ID. However, it's made me realise with a jolt that there's a lot I've written that I would hate some people close to me to read at another time, especially my children to read in the future (there's a thought ), so I'm wondering whether there is now a need for a MN spin-off site which is subscription only and private? I realise this is dangerously near to Moldie territory, but tbh I'd rather give my ££ to MNHQ and be able to post in a smaller, safer, closed environment than have to seek that kind of site elsewhere.
It seems to me that MN is now so huge (and likely to become even bigger with a regular feature in the DM) that a relatively small number of posters subscribing to another site would be a drop in the ocean (and might even help with financing the main site...?)