For the record, I think it is relevant to talk about one's own experiences in relation to this incident.
I don't think anyone on here has said that the boy was asking for it, and I don't think that talking about personal experiences implies that. Most, if not all, people have expressed utter sympathy and concern towards the child and his family.
Nor has anyone condoned the actions of the teacher involved.
I think what all our experiences highlight is how inefficient the schools are in dealing with this. There isn't enough support for stressed teachers. Warnings signs are not picked up on, cries for help go unheeded.
This man was off with stress and had just returned. You'd think that he'd return with the full support of the school and extra support staff around to ensure that he, and his pupils, were coping.
Many of us are pointing out that this tradgedy could have been avoided and that a huge chunk of blame should lie with the school and the education system as a whole. There is a lot of pressure on teachers and nearly no support at all. The whole system needs a damn good shake-up. But in the meantime, no questions are being asked in the media. It's just being reported as a teacher gone mad, whereas I'm sure the truth is a lot more complicated and I do fear that unless more probing questions are asked, this incident will happen again, in another school.