So all the intelligence communities thought; which is why we went in initially. My db goes off to Afghanistan this year for 6 months, so I am worried too. He won't be front line, but it is still a dangerous place to be.
I don't think that we can come out until some of the other NATO and EU member states start to do some of the heavy lifting. They are as ever happy for the Brits, Americans, Canadians and the Danes amongst others to do the dirty work in Helmand, whilst they piss about elsewhere. The Taliban have to be defeated, or at least ground down to the point where it will take them years to regroup. The farmers have to be given the opportunity to sell the poppy to the drug companies (and they have to give them a reasonable price) and we have to get infrastructure in there to improve lives.
However, until this bloody government actually takes defence seriously and starts funding it properly, there will be more deaths. It's not just about chucking money at the front line troops; it's about ensuring that procurement for the future is on track as well with replacing trident; making sure we have enough submarines to combat the resurgent Russian submarine threat; ensuring that we have vehicles that have half a chance of withstanding the IEDs used by the Taliban; giving the RAF heavy lift capability; giving all three services enough helicopters for their jobs; making sure the families have decent living conditions with Married Quarters; and that's just off the top of my head.
It pisses me off that we send international aid to China, when that money could be used to improve the chances of those on the front line.
InScotland - I am so sorry about your brother; I'm a service wife, sister, daughter and daughter in law, but however much you tell yourself it's their job and them's the breaks, they are still your family and nothing will ever take that away or the gutwrenching anguish of losing someone like that.